They are kinda interconnected, ime.
Kinda. But only kinda.
Here's the thing. I dunno if you read
this thread, but it proves pretty well that SJs generally don't look for people who think like them, as much as they look for people with similar interests, and then they see how things flow after that. So, when asked similar questions to the OP's question, I tend to say that there aren't many SJs on the forum because they generally just aren't as interested in in-depth discussions about personality typology. They're all over the internet, just like Ns, but they tend to flock to different sorts of forums.
So, that's what I meant, when I emphasized the N-uniqueness mentality as being much more of a thing, than a supposed SJ need to be part of the majority. SJs like to talk about things they're interested in, with other people who are interested in them, and as long as the discussion is good, the forum serves a practical need, and the SJ makes friends, then what else matters?
I figured, but it's not like you guys are the norm.
And here's where we run into my eternal problem when talking about "normal" SJs.
1) As far as I can tell, I don't know any "normal" SJs. That is, if you're defining "normal" SJs as being of average intelligence and unskilled with theoretical conversation, because I think my SJ friends are pretty smart, and hell, we're all in academia at the moment, so we have to be good at theoretical discussion, even if we don't enjoy it.
2) I seek out people who I'm interested in and who I like -- and by contrast, if I dislike people, or if I'm not interested in them, then I put them out of my mind and/or ignore them.
So, does it necessarily follow that I'm not friends with SJs because I find them rude or uninteresting? Does it follow that my opinion on SJs is irrelevant because I'm "more Ne than average"? Does it follow that because I'm not "normal", I wouldn't generally befriend "normal" people?
I'd actually love to hear from other SJs on this. [MENTION=8485]tinker683[/MENTION]? [MENTION=15167]Stephen[/MENTION]? [MENTION=4398]Giggly[/MENTION]? [MENTION=15246]SD45T-2[/MENTION]? Thoughts on the idea that "normal" SJs are not the sort who would want to be here? Or thoughts on how you would approach speaking for "normal" SJs on the forum? How would you folks define a "normal" SJ, anyway, and would you consider yourself one of them?
Yep, elitism can be a big concern on these forums. The intpforum (not intpc) seems to be pretty chill though.
I've never been there, actually. Pros/cons, vs. INTPc and here?
Exactly. See, I use the word ''tend'' in order not to deal with the exceptions.
Actually, you said "probably tend", which is even better!
It's weird. I just don't "get" them, a lot of the time. Especially ESFPs. I generally feel confused, uptight, and/or annoyed, around ESFPs. My ENFP BFF has an ESFP 3w4 younger sister, and I can't even begin to understand her. The whole entertainment/image thing...