I'm posting this to my fellow SJs as I'm curious if this may be an Si thing or if its just me, but...
Am I the only one who really hates it when someone can't give you a straight answer? For example, when I ask a friend of mine, "How'd your night go?" And the conversation follows as:
Them: "was good! We stayed out late, I only got a few hours of sleep."
Me: "why, what happened?"
Them: "what do you mean?"
Me: "why were you out so late?"
Them: "we were out late because we were out late. Are you mad at me or something?"
Now see, at this point, I don't really care a whole lot about why they were out so late, I'm just curious at that point as to why it is they're giving me such non descript answers. It's like an alarm bell goes off in my head and I start to wonder, "what's up with this? Why are they answering me in this fashion?" And I become intensely curious.
Apparently this offends some people. Am I the only one who gets like this? I this an Si or perhaps an inferior Ne thing?