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[ESFJ] How to seduce an ESFJ

Domino

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AHAHAHHAHA!!!

Me thinks *someone* has a plan in the works? Who's the unfortunate victim ready to be "jixfixed"? :p
 

Giggly

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Ask her if you can buy her a drink. :p
 

jixmixfix

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AHAHAHHAHA!!!

Me thinks *someone* has a plan in the works? Who's the fortunate victim ready to be "jixfixed"? :p

Shhhhhhhh....Fe dom's aren't suppose be here. There I edited the rest for you. :)
 

Engineer

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Wow someones got some wit.

But seriously. I think that might actually work.

Then talk about your life and how it's interesting, give her compliments, ask her to dance, make eye contact, smile, be charming.

Boom. You're done.

Just be careful you don't lie (much). xSFJs, in my experience, are pretty good at telling when someone is fibbing.
 

Giggly

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But you have all the functions of an ENTP think about it.....

I know, it's pretty cool when I think about it. They can be so wacky!
 

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Do something practical that reinforces their values.
 

Domino

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ESFJ girls tend to be lively and socially engaged. The ones I know who are friends of mine are also very intellectual, so I recommend not dropping a hideous cheesy pick-up line on them, unless it's wildly funny.
 

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Talk about the latest gossip.
 

jixmixfix

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ESFJ girls tend to be lively and socially engaged. The ones I know who are friends of mine are also very intellectual, so I recommend not dropping a hideous cheesy pick-up line on them, unless it's wildly funny.

Oh I'm already past the "pick up line" stage. ;)
 

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Pseudo

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Oh I'm already past the "pick up line" stage. ;)


Practical stuff, I'm telling you! My ESFJ friend is pretty traditional when it comes to gender roles (I assume most ESFJs are) and the biggest complement she give in regards to sex appeal is "what a man". Meaning she's impressed when her guy fixes something, lifts something heavy, takes control of a situation, drives a big truck to his physically demanding job and other stereotypically "masculine" things.
 
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