Hi guys. This is the first ISFJ I've been attracted to. We met at a work party in Dallas, but from the get-go she's been very friendly to me. I know what you're thinking, ISFJs are ALWAYS friendly. This is true, but this one likes to drink around me (she's usually very reserved with all, but she loosens up a lot when drinking, but only sexually with me, from what I've seen). Last week, she kissed me! She was nowhere near tipsy. We made out a bit, things stayed fun and light. I'm the one that put on the brakes to sex, just because she has a boyfriend, but I'm single.
So knowing how ISFJs (usually) feel about cheating, I (with much, much effort on my part) suggested that we revisit sex when we were both a little more sober, so I could enjoy every moment. I would really not rush into things, considering that we have many mutual friends.
She has mentioned how things don't seem like they will work out with him... We get along extremely well, she loves talking to me as her friend... so she MUST feel pretty comfortable around me, right?
Guys & gals, am I setting myself up for doom & disaster here? I really don't want to invest emotions in her if she just needs a little variety in her life. I'd rather know that's what it is, and just enjoy it for what it is. Thanks.