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    Default Ever been door slammed by an ISFJ?

    Oh I love ISFJs. Unlike INFJs you could beg and beg and crawl back to them and sooner or later they would forgive you. And beg and crawl I always do when it comes to ISFJs, especially females.

    So have you ever been door slammed by an ISFJ? Or have you (ISFJ) ever doorslammed anyone for good?

    From what I have noticed is that ISFJs are way more forgiving than INFJs. Is it a functional factor? But how could it be? Isn't Si what would plague one more for the wrong doings done to one/them by another?

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    Me as an ENTP has never door slammed another. There are people that I know that I would love to impale while singing and dancing to 'Bad' by Michael Jackson. But even these people I tend to associate (at arms length) and sometimes even help. At the same time I would have it at the back of my mind to punish them. But never do I door slam. What's the use of door slamming I would think to myself, without even knowing that I am thinking it.

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    Sometimes Si can focus more on the good times than the bad times (assuming there were authentic good times). Combine that with bleeding heart Fe and that results in forgiveness.

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    Yep. For good and forever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
    Yep. For good and forever.
    Shuttup Mac, we know you are a gigantic INTP nerd.

    Edit - Oh wait! You probably meant you were door slammed 'for good and forever'. Well I am sorry to hear that.

    Hmmm.....

    I just remember crawling to an INFJ begging and been forgiven. She didn't door slam me though. Was just livid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Riva View Post
    Shuttup Mac, we know you are a gigantic INTP nerd.
    That's what made it specially painful.

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    @Riva if I think someone has a good intentions and cares I will forgive them if they come back. If I think someone doesn't really care, or worse, is set on doing me or my loved ones harm, I will door slam them.

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    I just door slammed someone....dunno if it will be for good though
    "The man who is swimming against the stream knows the strength of it."
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    I think it doesn't exist conceptually the same way that NFJ doorslam does (if that one even exists, either)...
    You can't spell "justice" without ISTJ.

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    I've witnesses some serious ISFJ door slam. It's not undertaken at all lightly, which I guess is why people perceive them as being quite forgiving. Often they talk tough but in the end will forgive the person. However, there is a line and once it's crossed, all bets are off. You should see the way my ISFJ mum has door slammed my sister's (major asshole of a) ex-boyfriend - he's terrified of her.
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