No, the ENFJ is just socially retarded. He honestly means well, but doesn't really realize that it's not OK to pat my ISTJ on the head. Or talk REALLY REALLY LOUDLY (he pipes down when I tell him though). Or go around knocking on neighbors doors to"socialize" with them. He has no other friends, can't keep a job, and his roommates are always chasing him out the house because he unintentiionally annoys them.
Anyway. My ISTJ dislikes a lot of my friends, but since they don't cook for me, I don't like staying home anyway, and I head out their way, and it's a non-issue.
Tomorrow's going to suck though, because I'll be out with friends tomorrow night, and after bars close, we always go to each others' places to chill out on the living room, chat, watch TV, order pizza, 420 ourselves, etc and crash.
I'm pretty sure he wouldn't like me bringing my 5 noisy, drunk friends over to smoke weed and crash for the night, which means I'll crash at someone else's place, and I don't want him getting pissy about it. I just set the plans up tonight, so I'll bring it up tomorrow.