Do you go and hunt in clubs/friend circles/internet or girls come to you?
My first girlfriend back in high school came to me (shouldnt we guys be the first to talk about this? lol) so i guess since then ive been kinda thinking that maybe that will happen again... but of course it hasnt.
Need tips... cant really date on my friends group since we live in a small place and right at the moment i start to have long conversations with a girl ill have a hundred people on top of me making silly comments or questions, its stupid i know i shouldnt care but i want my privacy and tranquility with relationships (just because of this im shy to girls)
Also living on a small island doesnt really help, people arent really open-minded so maybe i get to know a girl that does like me but she doesnt tell me just in case their friends have a bad opinion of me... it works like that around here :/