Ugh. I have an ESTJ father, and BOY. I sometimes would like to hurl myself under a car he makes me feel so miserable.
I am also going into a medical field because I know he wouldn't be happy if I did anything else. It's quite ridiculous.
ESTJ father types do not see you doing anything great for your life unless it's what he thinks is best for you... which often times ISN'T. They hold everything over your head. Let you know that every little thing that they do for you is some huge monumental sacrifice. Always makes you feel guilty for having emotions.