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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    Yes, THIS. He'll have to decide if he's really having that big of a problem with you or not if you pose this to him.



    Is there something wrong with doing that?

    I'll ask him tonight......Good question


    LOL....Yes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    I feel sorry for IZ. This sounds like a really hard situation. I wouldn't want to be in it.

    IZ, do you point out when the ISFJ is being racist and stuff?

    Have you ever asked the ISFJ if he could keep his value statements to himself? Well, uhh, on second thought, I'm pretty sure you'd never asked that, but for what it's worth, it'd probably make him stop.

    I think when you get two ISxx's together, the level of communication can be really bad, which is disappointing for me considering that I seem to be most drawn to them.
    It's nothing where I'm overly bothered, It's just annoying.

    I think 2 ISXX can have a good time together.
    It's most likely age and experiences, and intelligence that make it hard with these- and when the preferences aren't balanced in an SFJ I guess it makes it hard for me.

    Please SFJs don't take that like I'm dissing all y'all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IZthe411 View Post
    It's nothing where I'm overly bothered, It's just annoying.
    I think you should make it clear to him that you are annoyed. You have to say something with words, preferably in a direct way to do this. It sounds like he has terrible Fe skills if you ask me. Either that or he just doesn't like you or care about you, in which case, it would be good to know that after he answers your question.

    I think 2 ISXX can have a good time together.
    It's most likely age and experiences, and intelligence that make it hard with these- and when the preferences aren't balanced in an SFJ I guess it makes it hard for me.
    I've had great times with ISxx's, which is partly why I'm so drawn to them but I just noticed that the communication takes more effort than with ESxx's.

    Please SFJs don't take that like I'm dissing all y'all.
    My Fe is crying.
    Just kidding.
    I appreciate you saying that, but I see the difficulty (for both sides) in the situation.


    Quote Originally Posted by IZthe411 View Post
    I'll ask him tonight......Good question


    LOL....Yes.
    I meant is there something wrong with Marm letting them Fe all over her (she likes it)?
    It's sort of like loving getting Ne-ed all over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    I think you should make it clear to him that you are annoyed. You have to say something with words, preferably in a direct way to do this. It sounds like he has terrible Fe skills if you ask me. Either that or he just doesn't like you or care about you, in which case, it would be good to know that after he answers your question.



    I've had great times with ISxx's, which is partly why I'm so drawn to them but I just noticed that the communication takes more effort than with ESxx's.



    My Fe is crying.
    Just kidding.
    I appreciate you saying that, but I see the difficulty (for both sides) in the situation.




    I meant is there something wrong with Marm letting them Fe all over her (she likes it)?
    It's sort of like loving getting Ne-ed all over.
    LOL Guys don't like getting Ne-ed.

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    You're a big fat liar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    You're a big fat liar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IZthe411 View Post
    LOL Guys don't like getting Ne-ed.


    And people say ISTJs don't like silly puns!
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    Quote Originally Posted by IZthe411 View Post
    LOL Guys don't like getting Ne-ed.
    You don't have to lie to kick it, it makes you Si doms feel strong and confident. "Oh dear you lost little ENFP, I have to help you. Why, how did you even manage to survive before you met me, you cute little silly thing?"

    Real conversation had with an Si dom a few days ago, "I am your savior. I am saving you."

    Our ideas are cool sometimes too, dammit.

    It happens in Si-aux, too. My ESFJ used to call me his stray kitten.

    Maybe this is Fe combined with Si,though.

    Maybe STJs are more annoyed by it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmie Dearest View Post
    You don't have to lie to kick it, it makes you Si doms feel strong and confident. "Oh dear you lost little ENFP, I have to help you. Why, how did you even manage to survive before you met me, you cute little silly thing?"

    Real conversation had with an Si dom a few days ago, "I am your savior. I am saving you."

    Our ideas are cool sometimes too, dammit.
    Hehehe...cool and useful sometimes, yes definately. Most of the time, adorably wrong :pats head:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmie Dearest View Post
    It happens in Si-aux, too. My ESFJ used to call me his stray kitten.

    Maybe this is Fe combined with Si,though.

    Maybe STJs are more annoyed by it.
    Even though I've often felt like I've been a parent or something like that with one of my friends, I've -never- called them anything denoting that. To me, it's just really insulting to them to say something like that, most especially to my SO's.
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    Most of the time adorably wrong? :steam:

    *sighs* I'll let it slide...this time. Because you're so nice. *pouts*

    I wasn't insulted by the stray kitten comments he made, I thought it was sweet and it made me feel safe. He didn't say it in a condescending manner.

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