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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Actually, I should add a side note that hetero men who are seen as homo end up not getting any and for an sx variant like me it FUCKING SUCKS in a very bad way.
    I get some. LOL Not as much as I would like, but I am not striking out ALL the time. I pick up women, but I have a very hard time keeping a relationship going. I am 25 years old, and my longest relationship was 10-11th grade in high school, and about 10 months long.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pure_mercury View Post
    I get some. LOL Not as much as I would like, but I am not striking out ALL the time. I pick up women, but I have a very hard time keeping a relationship going. I am 25 years old, and my longest relationship was 10-11th grade in high school, and about 10 months long.
    Similar boat: longest was, again, 10 months and that was 3 years ago. The rest I end up with only one week or one month - you'd think I'd learn to be pickier...
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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Similar boat: longest was, again, 10 months and that was 3 years ago. The rest I end up with only one week or one month - you'd think I'd learn to be pickier...
    Same thing that always happens to me happened at the Britpop dance party. Met a cute pixieish brunette who couldn't believe that I could drink, dance, and sing the words to EVERY song, and we kind of hit it off. She had to leave with her two male friends who were a little whiny, though. I didn't even have time to get her name.
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    Eh, mine can be more along the lines of

    girl: "nice hair, where did you get it done?"
    me: "thanks, I... did it myself"
    girl: "you do hair?"
    me: "eh, kind of..." thinking: "I would wrather do you though"
    girl: "you're not like gay are you?"
    me: "no, no I'm not" thinking: "of ourse I am, that's totally why I'm drooling over your twin Cs at this very moment"
    girl: "right...."
    me: thinking: "I'm so not getting laid tonight..."

    madmins do with the derailment as thou will if needed
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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Eh, mine can be more along the lines of

    girl: "nice hair, where did you get it done?"
    me: "thanks, I... did it myself"
    girl: "you do hair?"
    me: "eh, kind of..." thinking: "I would wrather do you though"
    girl: "you're not like gay are you?"
    me: "no, no I'm not" thinking: "of ourse I am, that's totally why I'm drooling over your twin Cs at this very moment"
    girl: "right...."
    me: thinking: "I'm so not getting laid tonight..."

    madmins do with the derailment as thou will if needed
    Well, easy answer here: Lie, or start getting your hair cut by a professional. Even if it's Supercuts. I don't recommend lying. Still, I go to a fairly hip hair salon in Center City Philadelphia, and I love my stylist. She is a sweet punk rock party girl, and we talk about relationships a fair amount. I get the feeling she also does not get many straight male customers, and she is very non-judgmental, so it's fun. I always like to get the female perspective about my personal woes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pure_mercury View Post
    Well, easy answer here: Lie, or start getting your hair cut by a professional. Even if it's Supercuts. I don't recommend lying. Still, I go to a fairly hip hair salon in Center City Philadelphia, and I love my stylist. She is a sweet punk rock party girl, and we talk about relationships a fair amount. I get the feeling she also does not get many straight male customers, and she is very non-judgmental, so it's fun. I always like to get the female perspective about my personal woes.
    Eh, but I'm cheap and I find the talk draining...
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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Eh, but I'm cheap and I find the talk draining...
    They don't have men's hair cuts for like $15 in Alberta?
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    Quote Originally Posted by pure_mercury View Post
    They don't have men's hair cuts for like $15 in Alberta?
    I'm reeeeealy cheap when it comes to my own needs, especially if I can do it myself. I also hate adding to the list of appointments I already have and yes that's my P talking and I really don't care what anyone thinks about that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    I'm reeeeealy cheap when it comes to my own needs, especially if I can do it myself. I also hate adding to the list of appointments I already have and yes that's my P talking and I really don't care what anyone thinks about that.
    Fair enough. Maybe you should just go out to a bar and pick a fight randomly. That might do the trick.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pure_mercury View Post
    Fair enough. Maybe you should just go out to a bar and pick a fight randomly. That might do the trick.
    Hahahahaha, I don't want to be sending someone to the hospital; can't fight jock style, too easy to break.
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