I knew an ESFJ male who was decidedly NOT ladylike! He was an Army Ranger, who could outdrink anyone I'd ever met and was definitly a guys guy
Of course he once told me that I should cry sometimes because it's such a good release
He was always very generous with buying rounds of drinks for people (we'd get in contests over that! ) and was a really good host- you'd KNOW that he was happy to see you and he made you feel it!
Definitly one of my favorite people ever!