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    Quote Originally Posted by 2XtremeENFP View Post
    I also explained to him about this seasonal depression thing, I HATE winter and the cold, dark days. I want to move somewhere warmer! This is what he says, This is ridiculous.. he says, "but, if we move away to somewhere warmer..where will we vacation to?" Then he goes on to say that if we moved somewhere warm, then we will get spoiled by the warm weather and when it reaches 40 or 50 degrees, we will complain because it take it for granted. He thinks we'll turn into one of those kind of people. i mean WHAT THE HELL!? WHO THINKS LIKE THIS? HOW COULD THIS THOUGHT HOLD YOU BACK FROM WANTING TO MOVE TO THE BEACH?!
    You know, I get seasonally depressed. But I didn't like living in Dubai with a 5 minute walk to the beach.

    Be wary of using 'grass is always greener' arguments.

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    Quote Originally Posted by InvisibleJim View Post
    Be wary of using 'grass is always greener' arguments.

    of me using it or of him? ah im confused.

    I know that being an ENFP means that I am prone to having that Grass is always Greener complex. The grass is dead, and I need to find grass that has more color, end of story.

    (The grass being my hometown, and the colored grass being a place more lively...in case my metaphor wasnt making sense )

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    Quote Originally Posted by InvisibleJim View Post
    You know, I get seasonally depressed. But I didn't like living in Dubai with a 5 minute walk to the beach.
    Well you have to consider the drawback that comes with living in Dubai - mainly the fact that you're living in Dubai.
    Listen to me, baby, you got to understand, you're old enough to learn the makings of a man.

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    How did the interview go?
    "Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
    Eleanor Roosevelt


    "When people see some things as beautiful,
    other things become ugly.
    When people see some things as good,
    other things become bad."
    Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

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    Good on you for having the talk.

    Quote Originally Posted by 2XtremeENFP View Post
    We broke up once before for about a year or two (though the second year, we were basically dating without a title). I dont want to break up with him. I want to marry him, I just don't want to live in our hometown.
    This sounds really tough.

    Do you know where you are on his priority list? Do you come before or after his parents and himself?

    What are his expectations of you once you get married? Would he be okay with you traveling as part of your career? Would you be okay without him being there to share the adventures with you?

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