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    Default ISTJs how do you end up in romantic relationships?

    Just looking into new ways I may not have considered when pursuing romance. So how do you as an ISTJ find romance? Also if it applies, how did you run into the love of your life?
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    One girl I was interested in was a classmate that turned into a friend before anything happened. The next was a girl that came in my store that I dated twice, and then it ended. Another I had the closest to a real relationship with was long-distance and started long-distance with a 17 year old girl when I was 23. It ended after I went down to visit her and she didn't take the relationship serious enough. Current one is a girl I like I work with, we're talking right now, but seeing where it goes. My dating experience isn't very exciting.


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    I relentlessly pursued my ISTJ until he gave in
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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    I relentlessly pursued my ISTJ until he gave in
    I wonder if this method is also successful on INTJs.

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    I've found that to be the case as well
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    I'm dating an ISTJ, so not sure exactly if this can help you or not but we met through a friend and started hanging out in a group a lot. The two of us hit it off and eventually started hanging out one on one. It's good to be friends first I think.
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    Through friends. I'm trying to get with back with my ISFP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    I relentlessly pursued my ISTJ until he gave in
    .....
    We don't generally give in easily either!

    Anyway, I met my girlfriend at a superbowl party (I know, it's shocking) that was put on by our church (not shocking anymore) and she was an ESTP... she was a real sweetheart.
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    My ENTJ pursued me. He managed to get me wrapped around his finger somehow. And I spent the first year of our relationship not really considering it to be serious. I never thought it would turn out to be a long-term thing.

    I'm pretty sure all of my relationships have involved the other person pursuing me. But I'm a bit of the submissive and shy type, so I suppose that makes sense.
    “Everybody has a secret world inside of them. All of the people of the world, I mean everybody. No matter how dull and boring they are on the outside, inside
    them they've all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds. Not just one world. Hundreds of them. Thousands maybe.” -Neil Gaiman

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