One girl I was interested in was a classmate that turned into a friend before anything happened. The next was a girl that came in my store that I dated twice, and then it ended. Another I had the closest to a real relationship with was long-distance and started long-distance with a 17 year old girl when I was 23. It ended after I went down to visit her and she didn't take the relationship serious enough. Current one is a girl I like I work with, we're talking right now, but seeing where it goes. My dating experience isn't very exciting.
I'm dating an ISTJ, so not sure exactly if this can help you or not but we met through a friend and started hanging out in a group a lot. The two of us hit it off and eventually started hanging out one on one. It's good to be friends first I think.
My ENTJ pursued me. He managed to get me wrapped around his finger somehow. And I spent the first year of our relationship not really considering it to be serious. I never thought it would turn out to be a long-term thing.
I'm pretty sure all of my relationships have involved the other person pursuing me. But I'm a bit of the submissive and shy type, so I suppose that makes sense.
“Everybody has a secret world inside of them. All of the people of the world, I mean everybody. No matter how dull and boring they are on the outside, inside
them they've all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds. Not just one world. Hundreds of them. Thousands maybe.” -Neil Gaiman