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    Quote Originally Posted by Caligula View Post
    I still don't know my type, but of all the type descriptions on Personality Page, I relate most to ISFJ. Here's my experience with dating, let me know if you can relate:

    -If I don't see the possibility of a long term relationship, it's out of the question. I see relationships for the sake of relationships as sort of a waste of time; I'm very long-term oriented.
    -Have trouble getting over relationships. I dated my last boyfriend (ISFP) for 2.5 years and here I am half a year later still obsessing over it. I even got into another relationship with an ISTX, which ended because I'm still not over my dear ISFP.
    -Want a close relationship/a connection.
    -Want to do nice things for the other person. I love cooking/baking/making things for them.
    -Extremely loyal. I can't even think about other people when I'm in a relationship.
    -Reacts to the other person. I change myself to try to make the relationship work, depending on what they want. I think this is both a good thing and a fault.
    -Can be a little obsessive... (I'm definitely like this.)

    Let me know if I'm way off here and I can delete/move this post.
    Sounds like me. Took me two years to get over my ENFJ.

    Quote Originally Posted by Caligula View Post
    ISFJs, have you ever broken up with someone? If so, how do you do it?
    I have (my ENFJ) and it's like the first item on your list: It was a LDR and when it came to light that that wasn't ever going to change, I realized it was hurting me more to be with her than not. So I brought up my concerns with her and...well...everything hit the fan then.

    It was a messy breakup, but we reconciled some months later and have been good friends ever since
    "The man who is swimming against the stream knows the strength of it."
    ― Woodrow Wilson

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    Quote Originally Posted by Caligula View Post
    ISFJs, have you ever broken up with someone? If so, how do you do it?
    The only way this could not be really hard is if you don't care about that person, in which case, the ISFJ probably wouldn't be dating someone they don't care about.

    But anyways, I think it generally takes ISFJs a while to get over a breakup. I think we're too clingy.

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