My mom s an isfj. Yesterday i was told an old lady i liked died. I was saddened. She then went on about Hat happened and how she died, the precursor signs etc. I was like "mom. Please. Stop" (with the si list)
But she s good people. I like my mom. She can drive me nuts with her attention to "what is proper" but hey, she means well.
Our main source of conflict would be how she goes very very "si" under stress and tries to impose it on people close to her (part of her fe fuzzy bubble).
For example insisting i need to pack my things days in advance because it stressed her while i have never missed a plane (and was paying for the damn thing in the first place). It was to the point of harassement.
But moms are not exactly normal samples.
I dont really have isfj friends. I dont think im on their wave length. And if im not interested im just not. It doesnt make the person boring. Just as if im not attracted to someone it just means that.
Do i really have to repost that "offended vs. Offensive" comics?