User Tag List

Results 1 to 10 of 10

  1. #1
    Senior Member Saslou's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2009
    MBTI
    ESFJ
    Posts
    4,915

    Default More reasons why SJ's are GREAT :)

    My colleague (ISFJ) told me recently she enjoys coming to work and me being there, apparently i make her laugh all the time

    My mum (ESFJ) has offered to have my children for a week next April (my B-day) so i can check out Cairo alone .. How sweet of her to offer.

    Me and my eldest (ISTJ) chilled out on my bed last night and discussed death .. He fears it and afterwards he seemed more at ease with the whole subject ..

    Tell me why SJ's in your life are awesome

    EDIT - I am starting this thread because like attracts like .. Although people may want to badmouth SJ's .. We can raise above it by showing tolerance to their ignorance.
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
    ― Georgia O'Keeffe

  2. #2
    it's tea time! Walking Tourist's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    MBTI
    esfp
    Enneagram
    7
    Posts
    1,452

    Default

    One of my closest friends is an ESFJ. She is enthusiastic and energetic and she always shares, even when she doesn't have much to share. She always makes me feel welcome and comfortable and at home. I want to give her lots of for just being herself!
    I'm a little teapot, short and stout. Here is my handle and here is my spout. Every time I steam up, I give a shout. Just tip me over and pour me out.

  3. #3
    likes this gromit's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Posts
    6,652

    Default

    I only know the types of a few people in real life (no SJs although I think my sis might be xSFJ), but the SJs on here I know are fun/funny/kind.
    Your kisses, sweeter than honey. But guess what, so is my money.

  4. #4
    Senior Member Chaotic Harmony's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2009
    MBTI
    ENFP
    Enneagram
    9w1 sx
    Posts
    1,436

    Default

    My best friend/big "bro" is an ISTJ. He's one of the few people that gets me... And sees me for everything I am. He's always got my back and has been more loyal to me than any other friend. He's incredible protective of me. I really have turned into his kid sister over the years...eventhough we're only a year apart in age. Ah, I'd be a mess still without him.


  5. #5
    Senior Member AutumnReverie's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2009
    MBTI
    ISTJ
    Enneagram
    6w5
    Posts
    327

    Default

    My friend is an ESFJ and she's so much fun to be around -- she's welcoming, generous, warm, goofy, and (best of all) responsible and level-headed. I'm so glad we're roommates this year! So far, so good.

  6. #6
    Intriguing.... Quinlan's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    MBTI
    ISFP
    Enneagram
    9w1
    Socionics
    Booo
    Posts
    3,005

    Default

    My wife is an ESFJ and she is just awesome, so caring and expressive, I have always felt comfortable being open with her and just being dorks together. She is always looking out for other people and trying to maintain harmony. She is modest and way too hard on herself sometimes.

    My grandad was an ESTJ, he was a mechanic and used to recondition vintage cars, he had awesome dedication to his craft and he had a wealth of knowledge about pretty much everything. He was always friendly and open, he knew a lot of people and joined heaps of clubs. I admired the way he could go up to strangers and just chat away as if he'd known them for years. People like him are like social glue, he would always have a story for anyone that would listen.
    Act your age not your enneagram number.

    Quinlan's Creations

  7. #7
    The Black Knight Domino's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2007
    MBTI
    eNFJ
    Enneagram
    4w3 sx/so
    Socionics
    eNFJ Ni
    Posts
    11,443

    Default

    Bouncing serious ideas off my ESFJ friends has bordered on alchemy. Their Fe-Ne with my Fe-Ni just does something totally weird and awesome.

    SJs have been protective of me, concerned, and have made me feel very safe. When my ISTJ grandfather died, I felt so much less safe in this world for some reason.

    I had an ISFJ friend who would call me super long distance every week just to chat and to be sure that I was still alive and kicking when I was incredibly ill. His concern for me and his ready allowance of my raging angry hurt Fe were priceless objects.

    My ISTJ friend, my oldest in the world, saved me from being kidnapped when we were 12 years old.

    My mother is an ESTJ and her sense of humor is hysterical. We all get going on something stupid and off-the-wall and laugh our heads off.
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
    Neutral Good
    EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
    RLUEI, Choleric/Melancholic
    Inquistive/Limbic
    AIS Holland code
    Researcher: VDI-P
    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

  8. #8
    Aquaria mrcockburn's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    MBTI
    ¥¤
    Enneagram
    3w4 sp/so
    Posts
    1,907

    Default

    SJs are stable, responsible and reliable. You don't have to worry about them doing some random stupid shit or flaking out. It does give me an odd peace of mind.

    And when you get them drunk, they've got a nice earthy humor.
    3w4-9w1-?w6 (nearly headless nick)
    sp/so
    Lawful Evil

    COCKBURN:

    http://sundrytimes.files.wordpress.c...tomic-bomb.jpg


  9. #9
    Junior Member SavMandu's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2010
    MBTI
    IstJ
    Enneagram
    9w1
    Posts
    22

    Default

    My ESFJ sister cuts through the crap and names names. She is also a successful homemaker, in addition to her supervisory position. She gets my humor as well.

  10. #10
    One day and the next Rainne's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    MBTI
    ISTP
    Posts
    899

    Default

    ESFJ - like a mother hen
    ISTJ - quiet, reliable and competent
    Weathergirl: District 38 is sunny. Slight rock showers this morning. Chance of rock showers into the afternoon—20 percent. District 39 is cloudy. Chance of rock showers this afternoon—10 percent.
    Edward: Bebop here here! Alright woo hoo!
    Weathergirl: Chance of rock showers today upgraded to 90 percent.
    Edward: Really.

Similar Threads

  1. Can this be the reason why Ns think that sensors are "stupid" ?
    By Virtual ghost in forum Myers-Briggs and Jungian Cognitive Functions
    Replies: 120
    Last Post: 03-10-2015, 05:02 PM
  2. Replies: 9
    Last Post: 02-12-2013, 04:23 AM
  3. Why SJ types are not as common as many think
    By karmacoma in forum Myers-Briggs and Jungian Cognitive Functions
    Replies: 40
    Last Post: 10-27-2012, 06:45 PM
  4. [SJ] Top 3 reasons for why SJs suck...
    By The Ü™ in forum The SJ Guardhouse (ESFJ, ISFJ, ESTJ, ISTJ)
    Replies: 192
    Last Post: 04-05-2011, 07:21 PM
  5. [NT] Top three reasons INTs are GREAT.
    By guesswho in forum The NT Rationale (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, INTJ)
    Replies: 20
    Last Post: 07-16-2010, 07:02 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
Single Sign On provided by vBSSO