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    1. They're good at practically organizing large social events.

    2. They never (or rarely) forget your birthday.

    3. They can be strong advocates for other people's feelings.

    4. They'll rarely embarrass you in public if you're trying to make a good impression.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ImNotTooPopular View Post
    Okay, so what am I SUPPOSED to like or appreciate about ESFJs?
    They are
    - warm
    - caring
    - supportive
    - nice company
    - considerate


    You totally desrve: &
    You are a good person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ImNotTooPopular View Post
    Okay, so what am I SUPPOSED to like or appreciate about ESFJs?
    There you go. Good question.

    I have read that they're major positive quality is they enjoy serving others and readily do so.
    "How can I serve you is their motto."

    My ESFJ sister in law is hard working, modest, cheerful, and keeps a delightful home.

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    How come I always get stuck with ESFJs that suck?

    It's possible my friend Jenny (ENFJ) is staying with an ESFJ, but I'm not sure of this lady's type so far. She's obviously E and probably J. She seems F so far, but I don't know her well. She's really nice and helpful and does a billion things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    One thing I love about ESFJs is that they typically are very protective of and will passionately fight for people and causes they are committed to. They don't give up; they fight tooth and nail, relentlessly; you can trust that if you are loved by one, they will not abandon you even if they might at times seem critical.
    Quote Originally Posted by wolfmaiden14 View Post
    I know no matter HOW bad I have it, she'll be there. I know she'd even take a bullet for me if the case called for it. Even when I have it good she always wants to do more for me. She's the kind of person that will help anybody, anywhere, anyhow even at the risk of her own self.

    She may talk incessantly, but I know it means well. And it means she isn't afraid to voice her thoughts and is tough enough to stand up and speak up for what she wants and is very clear about her expectations. She's actually the reason I got to developing my E, because I admired her out-goingness so much! She's so excitable and happy at the simplest things, sometimes it lights up the whole room, and really motivates others and makes them feel special and listened to.
    Quote Originally Posted by sciski View Post
    They are emotional but easily cheered up with kindness (ie don't hold grudges). They are loyal and loving. They are kind to the underdog.
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    They're awesome because they're always reliable, helpful and polite. They also give off this vibe of strength and certainty but at the same time seem somewhat vulnerable because they do things like cry at sad movies!
    Quote Originally Posted by athenian200 View Post
    1. They're good at practically organizing large social events.

    2. They never (or rarely) forget your birthday.

    3. They can be strong advocates for other people's feelings.

    4. They'll rarely embarrass you in public if you're trying to make a good impression.
    Quote Originally Posted by Alcearos View Post
    They are
    - warm
    - caring
    - supportive
    - nice company
    - considerate
    Quote Originally Posted by INTJMom View Post
    I have read that they're major positive quality is they enjoy serving others and readily do so.
    "How can I serve you is their motto."

    My ESFJ sister in law is hard working, modest, cheerful, and keeps a delightful home.
    I so want to be an ESFJ. They are everything I want to be.

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    My good friend George was an ESFJ Marine. NOTHING could stop him. And he cared so much about others, especially the "little guy" or the underdog. He would stand up for me, but also say, "You can do it, Pink!" He was all about helping people and fair play. Plus, he was great big and gave me hugs. I see in the ESFJs I know what I call Dickens' "Ghost of Christmas Past". Bonhomie. Good times. Inclusiveness.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ImNotTooPopular View Post
    Okay, so what am I SUPPOSED to like or appreciate about ESFJs?
    They have nice personalities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wandering View Post
    I so want to be an ESFJ. They are everything I want to be.
    I know how you feel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wandering View Post
    I so want to be an ESFJ. They are everything I want to be.
    I've often thought that myself.

    1. Considerate
    2. Organized.
    3. Outgoing
    4. Practical


    That seems fairly general. Though, I have know only a few ESFJs.

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    I'm jealous of their Fe. They do the things I wish I either knew how to do or wanted to do, like make nice gestures, act appropriately, cheer people up, etc.

    Also, they're organized, practically minded and motivated...I bet it's rare to find an ESFJ deadbeat.

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