I'm pretty sure I'm an ISFJ and I thought this thread would help me figure it out. I've noticed some things about myself that bother people, and I was wondering if any other ISFJs do this too? (Also other types feel free to post your experiences with ISFJs)
First of all, I am extremely gullible. I never think someone is lying to me, even if it's obvious that they are.
However, when I find out that someone has lied to me, I get very upset and I'm sure to let them know. (I'm only talking about major lies, not silly ones.) I never forget about it and I sometimes even bring it up again with the person and let them know how much it bothered me.
The same goes for loyalty. I am extremely loyal to others but when they let me down I can't let go of how much it hurt me.
Also, I have an excellent memory for the past, which makes this that much worse...
Is it common for ISFJs to be more trusting and yet more vengeful after someone has betrayed that trust?
If anyone has experience with this, do you have any advice for me?