It's not like I was trying to bring down the hammer on this poor INTP youth. But damn, do you all realize how much collective bitching about extroverts, EJs, ESs, even EPs is done on this forum? I DID NOT think this girl is much more unusual than me when I was youngin. I had to be told to STFU and I meant absolutely no harm to anyone. I was just talking. I had bosses tell me when I was in retail not to be so friendly with the customers. NOT BE FRIENDLY IN RETAIL??!! And if I'd known that me just being me was being lambasted on an internet forum, that's just sending out negativity at some unsuspecting girl who probably is just being young, not immature or unhealthy, just young.
Also, yes, I am supersensitive to type bias on this forum and if I have/will vociferously campaign against it. This is a multitype forum and threads like these only stir up animosity. Search threads with "ESFJ" in the title and you've got some slim pickings. Yeah I could've ignored it and not responded, but that's not me.
So I'm sorry I don't see this girl's behavior as violating some unbreakable rule. She seems like a normal girl who upset ImNotTooPopular's applecart. Put me in stocks; I can't dredge up the requisite sympathy. I feel sorry for the girl who we really don't know what she was doing and was getting blasted on an internet forum for something she probably doesn't even realize she did "wrong."