amazing! you're complaining about this chick being so judgemental and then you turn around and do the same thing to her yourself!
If you don't like someone just don't associate with them- if forced to associate with them, then manipulate her as well- 2 can play that game :rolli:
I know some good ESFJs and some bad ESFJs- the good ones I absolutley adore, the bad ones I tend to make more miserable than they make me!
You've just got to learn to be less hypocritical yourself and to take your life into your own hands- don't just sit around and whine about the fact that you don't like this chick and list all kinds of things that you dislike about her (relevant or not) DO SOMETHING!