Never would 'all' of a type be like 'this'. Everybody is an individual. MBTI is just a type indicator that sorts you into sixteen types, but within that, there are much differences also. If we were all the same... I'd imagine my fellow INTJ's would not have so many differing views among themselves.
I never specifically typed a lot of people. It was mainly my close friends, but seeing ESFJ's are about 10% of the population, I daresay that I've encountered quite a few in my life. Not a lot of them bothered me, though, and I've always seen them as friendly and out-going (of course, I didn't get to know too many ESFJ's too personally. My mother is ISFJ and my best friends are INFJ, INTJ and ENTP). Ok. Maybe they DO like to talk about everyday things, but that is not inherently 'bad' in any way. Just because you don't like it, that doesn't mean it's bad. Just pretend to listen if it makes you feel better, and avoid dealing with them if they bother you, but there's really no need to bash ESFJ's in general.
I: 78% N: 88% T: 66% J: 44% Enneagram: The Reformer/The Investigator Global 5:RCOEI
urgh! Atleast you didn't SPEND TIME WITH ONE. And then have them fly off the rails whenever you did the tiniest thing 'wrong' have them constantly talk about you behind their back with their stupid !!!!!!!!!!!! JUDGEMENTS ! ARGH!
On a good note, i no longer talk to her. And feel relieved she is out of my life. She never didn't anything but make me anxious and feel guilty.