So I read in "Just your type" that if you wrong an ESFJ, they can take drastic action and end the relationship without even looking back. This happened with me and the person who proposed to me just two weeks ago. Bc we were texting instead of talking on the phone (LDR), he misunderstood something I said and because he is under alot of stress (watching his mom die of cancer) he had no trouble to just fault find and be critical and say, "I guess this wasnt meant to be". I was like...Ah, who the hell are you and what did you do with my loving super calm and compassionate man that I was going to marry next week???
The book also says that the ESFJ really just wants to find a mate who TRULY understands these emotional outbursts and illogical decisions that they make in haste only to later regret.
What could I do or say to make things better? After they have drastically ended one of these relationships, is there a chance they realize they were wrong and can forgive? HELP!!!!