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    why not just call him up and invite him somewhere. for instance, out for a drink or whatever you guys do. that should clear up any misunderstandings he has about you and your motives.

    if necessary, invite a few others and then call him up to invite him too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by INTP View Post
    when this happened i havent seen him or her for about 9 months and i had made it perfectly clear that i dont want to see neither of them because it was emotionally way too hard for me. and its not an F thing, its an Fe thing because Fi user could set himself to my shoes and understand my feelings.
    lol you really think that? I'm trying to imagine myself in the reverse situation where a woman wanted my bf, then got me uninvited places, then expected me to be understanding of her feelings. lollerskatez omgz

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    the girl you're speaking of really dodged a bullet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by digesthisickness View Post
    why not just call him up and invite him somewhere. for instance, out for a drink or whatever you guys do. that should clear up any misunderstandings he has about you and your motives.

    if necessary, invite a few others and then call him up to invite him too.
    i dont really care what he thinks about me or my motives, the main thing is that the girl understands me. neither do i really care about hanging out with him because its pretty(maybe too) hard for me. im just interested to hear an isfj opinions if this is an excuse that he is using to control the situation or is he retarded.

    luckily the guy is going to study to another country and she isnt going with him, that is if he is accepted to that school. and even if he is not he needs to fuck off from my country in like a month unless he finds a job, they get married(and i dont think that will happen) or he has like 15000€ extra money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by INTP View Post
    i dont really care what he thinks about me or my motives, the main thing is that the girl understands me. neither do i really care about hanging out with him because its pretty(maybe too) hard for me. im just interested to hear an isfj opinions if this is an excuse that he is using to control the situation or is he retarded.

    luckily the guy is going to study to another country and she isnt going with him, that is if he is accepted to that school. and even if he is not he needs to fuck off from my country in like a month unless he finds a job, they get married(and i dont think that will happen) or he has like 15000€ extra money.
    You just want his girlfriend and have somehow managed to twist the situation to rationalize your own irrational feelings.

    Well done!

    Seriously, if I was this guy, I'd hate your guts - and I'm an Fi user, I swear.

    He quite sensibly regards you as his enemy, and you're pretty much admitting here that you ARE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by marmalade.sunrise View Post
    lol you really think that? I'm trying to imagine myself in the reverse situation where a woman wanted my bf, then got me uninvited places, then expected me to be understanding of her feelings. lollerskatez omgz
    it wasnt like he didnt have anything else to do than hang out with me and my best friend.. the reason my mate even invited him in the first place was because he was drunk and didnt think about the situation at all(what i find incredibly weird since i kinda isolated myself from nearly every of my friend for about 10 months because of this situation and because this whole thing was so hard for me to handle). i dont understand why he even thought it would have been ok to hang with me in the first place.

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    the girl you're speaking of really dodged a bullet.
    how so?

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    You just want his girlfriend and have somehow managed to twist the situation to rationalize your own irrational feelings.

    Well done!

    Seriously, if I was this guy, I'd hate your guts - and I'm an Fi user, I swear.
    yes i want his girlfriend, but i havent done anything to get her from him. being Fi, Fe, Ti or Te user has nothing to do if you would hate me because of this, but it has alot to do why you would hate me in this kind of situation. and i still dont care if he hates me or not, im just interested if this is an excuse to control the situation without looking weak or if he is seriously hating me because i told him not to hang out with me and my mate few months ago..
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    Quote Originally Posted by marmalade.sunrise View Post
    He quite sensibly regards you as his enemy, and you're pretty much admitting here that you ARE.
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    Quote Originally Posted by INTP View Post
    it wasnt like he didnt have anything else to do than hang out with me and my best friend.. the reason my mate even invited him in the first place was because he was drunk and didnt think about the situation at all(what i find incredibly weird since i kinda isolated myself from nearly every of my friend for about 10 months because of this situation and because this whole thing was so hard for me to handle). i dont understand why he even thought it would have been ok to hang with me in the first place.



    how so?



    yes i want his girlfriend, but i havent done anything to get her from him. being Fi, Fe, Ti or Te user has nothing to do if you would hate me because of this, but it has alot to do why you would hate me.
    You know, Feelers can often pick up on social cues that Ts who have not yet developed their F function will miss. That means he could be reading this situation quite accurately, and you have no idea what his gf has told him about you, either.

    The only reason you're calling him crazy and retarded is because you're jealous of him and want his gf. You're incapable of looking at this situation objectively because of your intense jealousy. That's fine - but you want us to say "oh yes you're so right and he's so wrong" and that's not what's going on here. The truth is that this is a very emotional situation for both of you, and as a feeler, I see HIS behavior as completely logical and normal.

    In truth, I think you're being fanciful by expecting him to tolerate you even whilst you're plotting behind his back. You really want ISFJs to be doormats, don't you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by marmalade.sunrise View Post
    You know, Feelers can often pick up on social cues that Ts who have not yet developed their F function will miss. That means he could be reading this situation quite accurately, and you have no idea what his gf has told him about you, either.

    The only reason you're calling him crazy and retarded is because you're jealous of him and want his gf. You're incapable of looking at this situation objectively because of your intense jealousy. That's fine - but you want us to say "oh yes you're so right and he's so wrong" and that's not what's going on here. The truth is that this is a very emotional situation for both of you, and as a feeler, I see HIS behavior as completely logical and normal.

    In truth, I think you're being fanciful by expecting him to tolerate you even whilst you're plotting behind his back. You really want ISFJs to be doormats, don't you?
    argh, im not calling him crazy or retarded, im just saying that if this is the only reason he is mad at me then and only then i think he is a retard. not to mention that he was totally fine with me when we last met.

    and im not plotting anything behind his back(or atleast not going to execute any of my evil plans), im just interested if it is the only reason that he is mad at me that i didnt want him to hang with me and my mate back then.
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    What type is she?

    Considering your confidence level about the girl (which seems medium high) it sounds like the girl is feeding you both.

    If this is true then you are truly a threat to the bf and it's no surprise to me that he is acting this way... he's doing what he has to do, which is to put his foot down in some way.

    You and the BF are acting exactly alike actually.

    The responsibility rests on her to draw the line, not on either of you guys unless you want to have a old -fashioned duel, winner takes girl.

    I have a sneaking suspicion that she won't draw a line though (she technically doesn't have to when you hide behind friendship) until things escalate to ridiculous levels of drama or somebody breaks up and/or moves away.

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