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    Default I'm crushing on an ISTJ guy

    This ISTJ is awesome. He's an ISTJ 9w8. Were total opposites on the MBTI but we are compatabile on the enneagram.

    I like him because he's accepting, loyal, serious, assertive, caring, honest, humble and very, very intelligent.

    And he has so many friends. So many people who like him and want to talk to him all the time. I wish I had that many good friends.

    I don't think we will ever be together though. He loves an ENFJ girl. He asked her out but she rejected him. Now she avoids him at all cost.

    On his instant messenger status, he asked... "Does anyone want to see X movie with me?" I think mostly his guy friends will respond. Should I ask him if I can go? What if he suspects that I like him and starts avoiding me?
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    JUST GO FOR IT. DO IT.
    Just because I'm an INFP doesn't mean I'm emo!

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    Im crushing on an ISTJ girl with similar attributes, its kind of weird, I had ISTJs pegged all wrong based on the 1 or 2 I knew before.
    Ground control to Major Tom

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    Accept and let the drama begin. Post again in 6 months with all the problems you guys are facing together

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    Just go and see the movie. Go for him.

    We (both guys and girls) don´t like mind games, like those you see in romantic movies. So, a straightforward response by you will be the best choice.

    "An intelligent hell would be better than a stupid paradise."
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    Quote Originally Posted by KiwiBurst View Post
    This ISTJ is awesome. He's an ISTJ 9w8. Were total opposites on the MBTI but we are compatabile on the enneagram.

    I like him because he's accepting, loyal, serious, assertive, caring, honest, humble and very, very intelligent.

    And he has so many friends. So many people who like him and want to talk to him all the time. I wish I had that many good friends.

    I don't think we will ever be together though. He loves an ENFJ girl. He asked her out but she rejected him. Now she avoids him at all cost.

    On his instant messenger status, he asked... "Does anyone want to see X movie with me?" I think mostly his guy friends will respond. Should I ask him if I can go? What if he suspects that I like him and starts avoiding me?
    I agree with Paradox Fox. Just do it! I wouldn't worry about the compatibility of the types on any test.. if you like him for the right reasons then you're compatible.
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    Damn, you're an ENFP, you know what to do. Go for it!
    (the correlation between feeling secure and the number of social connections of the potential partner still amazes me)

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    I'm with everyone else here... go for it! He sounds perfectly wonderful! make him forget about that damned ENFJ!
    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    When are ISTJs wonderful?

    Sounds boring if you ask me.

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