I used to be intensely organizer focused and laid out everyday. Now I just can't get myself to do it. But, I've just made lists of things to do in my head. I've started to write notes in my phone to jot things down to clear my head, but that's it. I create plans to ensure order and because I enjoy the feeling of completion. Like, today, I have a list of 4-5 things I want/have to do. Some is fun stuff, some are errands. I just know that those are things I must do today to have the day feel productive and fun. I view fun as being productive at times.
I take jokes fine and laugh at my flaws. Some jokes just suck.