Im feeling tense....Im ISTJ, and I really want to learn how to relax and trust my ENFP boyfriend..we've been together a year and hes sssoo loyal and so am i but im so unbelieving, and so untrusting when i have no reason to be that way. its something thats so constant to me I unconsciously let all his words blow over instead of mean something to me like they should..and like i want them to! its not something hes pointed out to me or had a problem with... im very good at hiding my feelings... its something iv noticed about my self that i dont like. I really think if i would get over this trust issue I could be even more connected with him. hes definitely more attached to me than I am with him. to but truly i dont know how to be more trusting.. im always preparing for the worst possibility instead of enjoying what I have right in front of me.