[SJ] SJ .. What are you feeling at this moment???

[Noon]

Oy vey. I need to fix my sleep.

This is kicking my ass.

 

[Habba]

Scathingly pissed off. Came back from a nice vacation to discover that the people I work with don't know what the hell they're doing and screwed a bunch of stuff up and/or didn't do shit they could have easily done. Instead of diving into a few projects I had planned out I've now spent the past two days cleaning up their mess. Fuck people are so unreliable!!!!!! :steam:

True for any and all SJs.

 

[EJCC]

True for any and all SJs.

Indeed. And Js in general! I know some INFJs who find themselves in that situation all the time, and are very, VERY resentful about it (and complain to me about it constantly ).

I'm feeling the beginnings of a buildup which, at its peak, will probably make me stir-crazy and frustrated and desperately in need of

- space,
- independence,
- freedom from all interpersonal obligations, and
- the ability to do what I want without being accountable to anyone.

I'm not there yet, but I'm feeling some suspicious stirrings that will definitely lead to it soon.

 

[Noon]

edit: I'm going to drive myself crazy by next week!

 

[Haven]

is it strange that I'm almost always about to flip the fuck out?

 

[Haven]

I find it difficult to communicate via internet forums because all non verbal communication is lost. It's actually really frustrating, I don't see how people get meaningful conversation out of this medium.

 

[EJCC]

I find it difficult to communicate via internet forums because all non verbal communication is lost. It's actually really frustrating, I don't see how people get meaningful conversation out of this medium.

I use a lot of smileys to make up for that. IRL I am very animated and gesture a lot, so using a lot of over-the-top smileys isn't that far from how I actually talk. The only times I don't use a lot of smileys are when I am making a matter-of-fact point, so there's no real reason to add emotion to the statement because the statement doesn't need it.

I know what you mean, though. I hate talking on the phone for a similar reason.

 

[EJCC]

I'm feeling confused by people's passive-aggression and sudden mood changes. Why can't people just be straightforward with me? I can take it, you know.

 

[Giggly]

Hungry - want tacos.
Tired - ??
Questioning my type again - it's entered my mind today that if in a perfectly healthy state, and without influence/expectations from others, I would be an ESFP. Should typing be based on a healthy state or an unhealthy state?

 

[skylights]

Hungry - want tacos.

TACOS

oh edit ps i think that depends on what you mean by unhealthy... if you're talking clinically depressed then no... but if you're talking just a little discombobulated then yes... if you checked me out at my most healthy you would think i was ENFJ... any other time... ENFP lol

 

[IZthe411]

Hungry - want tacos.
Tired - ??
Questioning my type again - it's entered my mind today that if in a perfectly healthy state, and without influence/expectations from others, I would be an ESFP. Should typing be based on a healthy state or an unhealthy state?

Define 'unhealthy'. I think I'm pretty chill, but when under some sort of heavy stress/pressure, the typical Si-Te tendencies discussed on this board come out. Otherwise I don't act in that controlling manner described around here. I don't consider that 'unhealthy' behavior, though.

 

[Giggly]

TACOS

oh edit ps i think that depends on what you mean by unhealthy... if you're talking clinically depressed then no... but if you're talking just a little discombobulated then yes... if you checked me out at my most healthy you would think i was ENFJ... any other time... ENFP lol

Define 'unhealthy'. I think I'm pretty chill, but when under some sort of heavy stress/pressure, the typical Si-Te tendencies discussed on this board come out. Otherwise I don't act in that controlling manner described around here. I don't consider that 'unhealthy' behavior, though.

Unhealthy to me would be thinking/feeling/behaving in a compensating or even defensive or way in order to deal with the fact that circumstances are not ideal. You never quite feel natural, happy, or comfortable in this state, even if you can execute it well.

 

[IZthe411]

Unhealthy- the worst aspects of your type come out.
So for an ISFJ- unhealthy would be a very conforming, controlling manner towards what's around you. I guess that feeling aspect would probably make you feel kind of down too.

 

[EJCC]

Unhealthy to me would be thinking/feeling/behaving in a compensating or even defensive or way in order to deal with the fact that circumstances are not ideal. You never quite feel natural, happy, or comfortable in this state, even if you can execute it well.

Some of that may have to do with enneagram? I dunno. But from my experience, when I'm stuck in a terrible situation in the long term (which has happened to me several times, generally for a week-long span), I get very quiet, subdued, and facts-only (i.e. much more of a type-1 stereotype than I usually am) on the outside, but on the inside I'm totally turning into a 4. What's your enneagram type? Does that apply?

As for what I'm feeling right now... just that. Self-pitying, angsty 4-ness. Homesickness. And a serious need for a hug.

 

[Giggly]

EJCC

I've been told I'm a 2w3. I think I might be, heck if I know. What is your enneagram?

 

[istj86]

love and depression

 

[Elfboy]

EJCC

I've been told I'm a 2w3. I think I might be, heck if I know. What is your enneagram?

she is a

(1w2 with a lots of integration to 7 )

 

[tinker683]

Nervous...impatient...excited...

Performing my Tango tonight with my ESTP dance partner and I almost wish the damned day would end already so I can get to it!!!

Only 3 and a 1/2 more hours before I leave the office and head home to prepare but....still...the anticipation is killing me

 

[tinker683]

Exuberant!!!! Rebecca and I *NAILED* our routine! I think we did an awesome Tango!

 

[Malice]

I've been caught up in a strange, effed up sleeping pattern for the better part of two-weeks and I'm starting to worry about it. Other than that things are pretty good, hungry. Breakfast is needed.