Keep in mind too that INTP's love to "understand" how things/people work. We learn by exploring, asking questions, and sometimes even provoking - in order to get answers. Each time another question is answered, we understand that much better.
The only reason I've stuck with this thread and continue to keep "exploring" is because I find your answers and feedback valuable. I find it valuable because of the fact that I work for an ESTJ and have family members that are ESTJ.
So, yeah, please forgive me if I was over-the-top or out of bounds with my rant. It's all in an attempt to gain a better understanding. I promise.