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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    Boo hoo. It's revenge time, mutha fuckas!
    Bite me asshole
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    Bite me asshole
    You are one of my favorites!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lambchop View Post
    You are one of my favorites!!
    Mine too.

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    I'd say ISFJ women are actually a fairly common problem for INTPs, not a weird problem.

    Seriously, INTPs complain about them ALL the time.

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    My theory: INTP's have to complain about something and they are just the only type that stick around with us long enough to give us enough ammunition.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Poser View Post
    My theory: INTP's have to complain about something and they are just the only type that stick around with us long enough to give us enough ammunition.
    Is that true that INTPs complain alot? For awhile I thought I was imagining things. Sometimes I think they make stuff up just so they can complain about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JTG1984 View Post
    Is that true that INTPs complain alot? For awhile I thought I was imagining things. Sometimes I think they make stuff up just so they can complain about it.
    It's true yes. Having had this epiphany, I approach you as a squad leader of the social underground network against intps. I will PM you further instructions on how to join us, cant talk no more, got to go..
    [URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEBvftJUwDw&t=0s[/URL]

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lambchop View Post
    You are one of my favorites!!
    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    Mine too.
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
    ― Georgia O'Keeffe

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    Quote Originally Posted by mysavior View Post
    Alright, I don't get along with very many people. I have one of those caustic and abrasive personalities that would make even Mike Tyson blush. Anyway, I'm still an introvert, so my personality isn't always in your face, but if you bother to inquire, you'll certain get a dose of it.

    One specific set of people that I don't tend to get along with are (what I believe to be) ISFJs. When I get around them (male or female, doesn't matter) shit gets reaaaally weird. I had always heard on forums that ISFJ's are nice and traditional and responsible, and whatever else. This was excitng to me (that and the fact that Socionics says we are activity partners or whatever), and upon first meeting most ISFJ's it all seems true: nice, polite, traditional (no frills), etc. Things go well for a while (in each of my encounters, that's about 1 hour), and then the shit starts to hit the fan: the ISFJ's are fucking full of it. To be more specific, I begin to find myself in a power struggle with the ISFJ's as they begin to see that I am mentally apt. Its really weird. You think they have a good impression of you, and think you are fine, but based on this bullshit response I get down the road, its like I've been judged as the scrawny, awkward dumbass. Pretty much, I got taken for granted, or seen as just some dude, and so now when I start putting some skills on display, they (specifically the men, here) start getting nervous/worried/etc that this nobody is going to outshine them. This is so weird. What's going on here? Maybe they were expecting a timid pushover that they could string around their finger and do with as they please, but then when I begin to assert myself, they start feeling like idiots, and think, "who the fuck does this guy think he is?" Anyway, the worry begins to materialize in the form of some underhanded and aggressive actions to (as far as I can see) remind me, or make it clear to me who is in charge. Its like they start worrying that I'm going to hold something over them, or look down on them like they are irrelevant ("I'm not going to be some little shit nobody to this clown"). Now, its weird and unexpected and aggressive and all that, but its done with a smile, you know, so I cant call out "bitch" or "pussy," I just pretty much have to deal with it, or ignore it, and go on with life. Usually, I've ended up just fine, but these bids for superiority never seem to end. Everytime I meet up with these people again, its the same bullshit.

    Again, what's going on here?

    This was negative, but I'm not really trying to bash these people.. they (usually) mean well, and are (enviably) responsible/organized with just about everything. What I'm trying to do is understand just what the fuck is going on here.

    Oh, and to my real point: the women.

    Alright,

    The ISFJ women I meet are usually short and fat (like, obese), or well-dressed with nice hair, traditional makeup, and bodies that you'd see on a fitness magazine. Now, it doesn't matter if the women I see are fat or in great shape, I always feel the same attraction (did you see that one coming?). That is, I can't stop looking at them! I'm completely fucking mesmerized. Now, this attraction never really leads anywhere (the "power" problem I mentioned above is a real deal killer for me), but it also never goes away. So here I am with these women who keep bullshitting, and who are just sickening me with the actions they are taking, and who are also (just to show how weird this is) overweight and fairly average-looking, and all I can think of is how much I want to bone them. Heh. Does anyone have this happen to them? Its really weird.

    Alright, so I went out with one of them a while ago, and it was like constant oscillation: initial meet, attraction, date, fight/bullshit, breakup, attraction, makeup, date, fight/bullshit, breakup.. again and again. And it was like (as I said before), no matter how disgusted I was with her, and what she does, I always found myself going back for more. And I'm sitting here wanting more again, and so I decided to ask.. what the hell?

    I'm also kinda questioning whether or not I REALLY DO VALUE personality over beauty, because her personality is shit, in my opinion, and it continually drives me away once it surfaces, but I keep going back because of the very strong physical attraction I have to her. Sometimes she's fat, sometimes she's sexy as hell.. sometimes she's pretty, sometimes she looks all over the place and like shit, and as I keep saying, it doesn't matter-- I still want it!

    I can't emphasize strongly enough how weird this is for me. I can't fucking explain it!

    Before I repeat myself one more time..

    Thoughts?
    Oh TRUST ME I know exactly how you feel to the T. Relationships like this are infamous for 'relations of Activity'. As an ENTJ, I have the same struggles with ESFP's who are my 'relations of Activity'. They have a great sexual energy and all, but stupid as fuck and highly unresponsible. There always seem to be some power struggle going on, where someone is trying to act like they don't need the other. It's all immature bullshit really. So I am going to give you a simple yet very effective piece of advise to deal with such people: TELL THEM TO GO FUCK THEMSELVES, AND NEVER CONTACT THEM AGAIN. move on! There's too many great people out there whom you will actually get along with on a consistent basis, so just focus your energy on these people, not the kind of people who take your investment in the relationship lightly. Peace out!

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