Or at least he will if he's anything like me
My advice? Ask him exactly what you just asked me, he'll adore you for it
On a serious note though: I don't know what his libdo is like so I can't say how he'll respond to that. I'm an Sx-dom and I have a very high libdo so I *always* respond well to flirting. But that's me.
And about 5, that shouldn't be too difficult. So it sounds like he will be studying me like a book (if he likes me, and since the other night he started talking about things several months down the road together, I would tend to assume that would be a yes, unless it was some sort of a strange test?). I suppose it is fitting that for once I be the specimen under the microscope so to speak. [/quote]
It could be that. I know that, for me, when I start talking about spending the future with her (as I did with my ex) it means I'm commiting myself to this relationship so yeah he could very serious about you.
However, that being said, I'd be leery of Fast Forwarding and Future Faking (google those terms along with "Natalie Lue" if you've never heard of that).
I don't very much he's testing you and if he is, you've got bigger problems than being a rat in his particular maze.
SJs, from my own experience and from what I've read, want helpmates. We want people who are partners in the truest sense of the word. We want people who will help us live the lives we want to live. We want to be able to lean on you and have you lean on us.
Consequently...when I don't feel safe with you...my trust in you waivers and that alone can cause me stress. For me (and I imagine for a lot of SJs) the idea of an intimate relationship is: You and me against the world.
Have to go now, hope that helped some...
Thanks for taking the time to give me a lengthy reply.[/QUOTE]