They are being taken advantage of by their employers. This is what I meant by sheep. That was a very poor choice of words for which I apologize. I am at a loss how to help them stand up to the people using them so I am simply supporting them for now. That is not enough as it does not change the situation.
You know the world is full of bad people who would sell you over for a pack of gum. But it seems the two ISFJs are too afraid of imaginary conflict. This is ruining their chances for financial security. In the end their inability to protect their interests means they have to sacrifice their children's interests to fund some Te a-hole's sports car. I know they don't want that.
I was hoping you guys would give me the answer.
I also avoid conflict and am a push over, so I am not exaggerating here.