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    According to this site our natural compatibly is with ISFP or INFP. Seriously though, as long as you and your SO are "healthy types" then any type can work!

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    I still have both plus two great-grandmothers. I was lucky though, I was born in a generationally young family and thus had both grandmothers, both grandfathers, great-grandmothers, two great-grandfathers, and two great-great-grandparents. I have a picture that has 5 generations of males from back when I was little - even my dad is jealous.
    I'm totally jealous... At 28 I've only got my grandma on my mom's side left. Grandpa on my dad's side died when I was 3 years old. My grandpa on my mom's side died when I was 18. My grandma on my dad's side died when I was 23.... My grandpa on my mom's side was 89 years old though, would have been 90 if he'd of hung on for another month... So he lived a pretty long life.

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    What does an unhealthy ESFJ look like?
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    I'm female. I just can't draw women

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tamske View Post
    What does an unhealthy ESFJ look like?
    Hmm... I would guess they would easily be jealous, manipulative, and controlling... I know when I'm feeling pretty depressed or upset I can become really controlling of everything around me. And I used to be an incredibly jealous person when I wasn't sure where my relationship was heading...

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    Is jealousy your worst sin, or do you have worse?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tamske View Post
    Is jealousy your worst sin, or do you have worse?
    I think my worst is my need to be in control of everything. I really only get jealous when I don't feel comfortable in a relationship or when I don't fully trust the person I'm with. I've never had a jealous moment with my fiance. He's made it very clear from day one that he's just as into me as I am to him... However, I constantly catch myself trying to control almost every situation I'm in. I am pretty sure I was trying to run a departmental meeting the other day and I'm just an assistant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tamske View Post
    Is jealousy your worst sin, or do you have worse?
    Impatient and impulsive Meditation is helping me ground myself though so hopefully a positive outlook is forecast for the future.
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
    ― Georgia O'Keeffe

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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    Impatient and impulsive Meditation is helping me ground myself though so hopefully a positive outlook is forecast for the future.
    Ugh, I'm getting better with my impulses thankfully... Impatience, not so much... Definitely not a virtue I possess....

    A friend of mine keeps telling me I need to get into meditation!

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    I couldn't understand at first how to calm myself and even brought a CD. It was actually a book that asked me to do small exercises and it just came naturally. If you had of seen me 2 months ago to today, you'd be surprised with the difference.

    Give it a try.

    I even have a buddhist mantra that i mutter to myself at work when i feel myself getting stressed .. Nam myoho renge kyo. It works for some reason.

    Buddhism - Nam-myoho-renge-kyo - SGI UK Website
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    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    I couldn't understand at first how to calm myself and even brought a CD. It was actually a book that asked me to do small exercises and it just came naturally. If you had of seen me 2 months ago to today, you'd be surprised with the difference.

    Give it a try.

    I even have a buddhist mantra that i mutter to myself at work when i feel myself getting stressed .. Nam myoho renge kyo. It works for some reason.

    Buddhism - Nam-myoho-renge-kyo - SGI UK Website
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    Ahh, my friend said mantras are what work for her. She said it's the concentrating on the mantra that slows her thoughts and makes meditation easier.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tamske View Post
    Is jealousy your worst sin, or do you have worse?
    Jealous as in relationship jealous? I can be. Envious? Never.
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