What's with ESFJ's not wanting anyone to "encroach on their territory" in a group setting? For instance, I know an ESFJ at work who is the best at what she does. Well, she's the only one who does it, so she doesn't have any competition. But, people need her because she is the only one who can do these things. But, then the boss man trained me to do these same things (because he wanted 2 people to know how to do them), and I became "just as good as she is". Oooooooooo, she gives me the scowl, the evil eye, the old "cold shoulder" .
Right after that, she didn't seem to like me much. Everything was fine before then, but now I don't think I'm her favorite person. It's like she tries to be competetive with me - almost like she tries to be mean - and I just keep doing my job , because, well, that's what I'm paid to do. Why so territorial? Why so stuffy in those situations? Why does it matter that someone else is just as good as you at your job? Afterall, we're on the same team, trying to accomplish the same goal? We should cooperate and work together. Or am I just dealing with a so-called "unhealthy ESFJ"?