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    Striving for balance Little Linguist's Avatar
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    Waaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiit a damn minute. Jeffy? Dear? You....are....an....ESFJ??? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PeaceBaby View Post
    OK, here's your question:

    Why are you impersonating an ESFJ?
    1) Maybe ESFJ is my "true type."

    2) No other ESFJ is stepping up to the plate.

    Case in point:

    Quote Originally Posted by pure_mercury View Post
    <-------- Real ESFJ (probably)
    He pops in to say that but I bet he won't stick around to actually answer questions.

    3) It's fun

    4) I'm bored


    Some combination of the above.

    Edit: I know either you or the mods would have changed your type for 1 Apr, but why the continued charade?
    Nobody changed my type for "1 Apr" so I don't know what you're talking about.

    (ps sorry if I am spoiling your fun)
    I highly doubt you could spoil my fun!
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    Jeffy, if you're bored, we could have a water gun fight!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tamske View Post
    What's the biggest difference between an ESFJ and an ESTJ?
    This is the biggest difference I've noticed between my ESFJ friends and me:

    When you talk to a (nice) ESFJ for the first time, they open right up and are friendly and welcome you into their group with open arms. It's as if you've been friends for years. If you open up to them in that first meeting, they react very kindly and appropriately.

    When you talk to an ESTJ for the first time, they're not as open with you. They might talk about more shallow things. They might not try very hard to keep a conversation going if it isn't working out. In other words, no matter how friendly they are, you can tell that they're keeping their distance from you (emotionally speaking, anyways). If you open up to them on that first meeting, they get bewildered (even if they don't show it), and might react a bit too coldly.

    But that might not be true in all cases.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Linguist View Post
    Waaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiit a damn minute. Jeffy? Dear? You....are....an....ESFJ??? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
    Hey, you changed your type, what, fifteen times? I'm allowed one at least!

    Quote Originally Posted by Little Linguist View Post
    Jeffy, if you're bored, we could have a water gun fight!!!!!
    Sounds good. Wear your tightest white t-shirt.

    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    This is the biggest difference I've noticed between my ESFJ friends and me:

    When you chat up a (nice) ESFJ for the first time, they open right up and are friendly and welcome you into their group with open arms. It's as if you've been friends for years. If you open up to them in that first meeting, they react very kindly and appropriately.

    When you chat up an ESTJ for the first time, they're not as open with you. They might talk about more shallow things. They might not try very hard to keep a conversation going if it isn't working out. In other words, no matter how friendly they are, you can tell that they're keeping their distance from you (emotionally speaking, anyways). If you open up to them on that first meeting, they get a little bewildered (even if they don't show it), and might react a bit too coldly.

    But that might not be true in all cases.
    Another difference is that ESTJs use phrases like "chat up." If you ever hear me say "chat up" please shoot me.
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    I would answer questions. ESFJ males are rare it seems. Well, rare on here, anyway.
    Who wants to try a bottle of merc's "Extroversion Olive Oil?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeffster View Post
    Another difference is that ESTJs use phrases like "chat up." If you ever hear me say "chat up" please shoot me.
    Thanks. Forget what I said about ESFJs being welcoming. (And yes, I know you aren't really an ESFJ.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by pure_mercury View Post
    I would answer questions. ESFJ males are rare it seems. Well, rare on here, anyway.
    Yep. It's a perspective not heard on here nearly enough. I'm glad if you will share more.

    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    Thanks. Forget what I said about ESFJs being welcoming. (And yes, I know you aren't really an ESFJ.)
    Lighten up, Francis.
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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    then, real ESFJ, I have a question...

    ... most of the real ESFJs I have as close friends end conversations with "Love ya!" or similar sentiments of love... I've never even said that to my own sister! What is the proper response for a cold hearted ESTP bastard in such a situation? (ok... one who values the friendship and wants to KEEP the ESFJ friend!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by pure_mercury View Post
    I would answer questions. ESFJ males are rare it seems. Well, rare on here, anyway.
    How would you contrast yourself with a female ESFJ and a male ESTJ?
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