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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    With all due respect, IZ, if you told one of your female SFJ friends "You're getting fat" I assure you, it would not bode well. Heck if you told a female FP the same thing, it would also not bode well and you'd get the same response. Am I sensing sexism?
    I wouldn't say that to a female of any type! I'm not crazy!

    But I should be able to talk to my boys like we're boys.

    I'm from Philly- the big city. He's a local guy. Whenever I make a statement about this small city, he shoots back that Philly is just as "whatever the statement was". He takes everything personally- and sometimes it's more annoying than others.

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    This could teach him to have thicker skin which could be good for him in life. If he can't do it, he'll probably start avoiding you.

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    yes, ESFJs are generally very thin skinned. Many are hot-headed on top of that. Oh and stupid too; many of them aren't very bright. Damn, it must suck to deal with ESFJs.
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    I don't know any male ESFJs but I would sure like to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Haven View Post
    yes, ESFJs are generally very thin skinned. Many are hot-headed on top of that. Oh and stupid too; many of them aren't very bright. Damn, it must suck to deal with ESFJs.
    ok, this is an example of how an ESFJ might fish for compliments.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    This could teach him to have thicker skin which could be good for him in life. If he can't do it, he'll probably start avoiding you.
    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    I don't know any male ESFJs but I would sure like to.

    I work with 2. One is actually a nice guy- has a heart of gold. I think most of my annoyance with him is E/I....He likes to ask questions just to ask- no real purpose other than to talk.

    The other is a hot mess. Takes things personally, tit for tat, and very prideful (can't really admit when he's wrong). He's also kind of guarded, which makes it hard to see him as a leader.

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    I work with a male ESFJ. So much energy! He has a million friends and is a born talker. I get the impression he's not entirely comfortable with silence. Very witty. He can't sit still and he's definitely a people person. He's well liked by all.
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    Does an ESFJ, when asked a question, not answer, but simply repeat the question back as "Do you _____?"

    It's so annoying!! I'm trying to converse and you kill it... every single time!!!

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    ... most of the real ESFJs I have as close friends end conversations with "Love ya!" or similar sentiments of love...
    Do all of you say this like every 5 minutes?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stu Katz View Post
    Does an ESFJ, when asked a question, not answer, but simply repeat the question back as "Do you _____?"

    It's so annoying!! I'm trying to converse and you kill it... every single time!!!
    THIS is an intriguing question. I have to go now but I'll try to come back to this thread later.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stu Katz View Post
    Does an ESFJ, when asked a question, not answer, but simply repeat the question back as "Do you _____?"

    It's so annoying!! I'm trying to converse and you kill it... every single time!!!



    Do all of you say this like every 5 minutes?
    Yes. I've had that with the ones I know.....I'm trying to think if it's something that goes across types. If it does I'll change my answer.

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