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    yep, you seem to be naturally annoying to ESFJs
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    I've grown to discover that I'm least compatible with SFJs.

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    that may make life difficult for you at times, but it's not necessarily a bad thing.

    I've had my own battles with them, and it's not fun.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IZthe411 View Post
    I've grown to discover that I'm least compatible with SFJs.
    When this happens to me, it's so much easier to deal with it if I just don't like the person. But if I like the person, then it's really really hard for me to deal with and put to rest. I'm trying to get better with this because I'm learning that this is part of life.

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    Someone asked what a villainous ESFJ would be like. I have 2 examples.

    From the Portal game series, GLaDOS is an ESFJ. She only wanted to help, and you killed her
    From Sucker Punch the movie, it came out earlier this year, the guy that runs the burlesque house is an ESFJ. what a prick. (on second thought I'm not so sure about his type now)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Haven View Post
    that may make life difficult for you at times, but it's not necessarily a bad thing.

    I've had my own battles with them, and it's not fun.
    Definitely not bad- just an awareness that makes me stop and think twice before I react.

    Like yesterday I told me SFJ friend that his hair was thinning. It wasn't said in a mean manner or anything- it was just an observation. He at first says it's the way his hair is cut. Then he defensively says 'Your hair is thinning too!". He takes a lot of things personally. He calls me blackhearted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    When this happens to me, it's so much easier to deal with it if I just don't like the person. But if I like the person, then it's really really hard for me to deal with and put to rest. I'm trying to get better with this because I'm learning that this is part of life.
    Yes. Yes. Yes. Refer to my friend above.

    I sometimes get into arguments with him due to his tendency to project his view onto my actions.

    One time he almost broke his neck to adjust the timer on a light he installed on my back door. I literally had to yell at him to get down- the guy could have really hurt himself. He jumps down and gets in my face, because I yelled at him. Forget the fact you just made a stupid, life threatening move, and could have easily put your family at risk, and the fact you disrespected me and my home- the fact that I had to yell at you trumps all of that.

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    On second thought, this sounds like love. Steamy love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    On second thought, this sounds like love. Steamy love.
    Steamy broccoli love. YES

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    With all due respect, IZ, if you told one of your female SFJ friends "You're getting fat" I assure you, it would not bode well. Heck if you told a female FP the same thing, it would also not bode well and you'd get the same response. Am I sensing sexism?

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