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    Senior Member simpleamazement's Avatar
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    Default Met the most amazing ESFP today...

    Without trying. Too bad she was married and a lot older. But time is non-existent with her. You know what I mean? Like you don't care about anything because your communication is so in sync with each other and you don't have to think about anything...you're kinda in a trance. I think her husband was ISTJ.

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    I love the idea of the ESFP/ISTJ pairing, just like I love the idea of the ESTP/ISFJ pairing. I tend to like the spark of the opposites attract thing. It's a wonderful ideal, especially if you can make it work for the long term.

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    There's an ESFP I work with that's about my age. We have this automatic spark that is just like, wow. Too bad she's married and has a kid. She's always looking at me, waving and smiling at me. I think it's just the reserved independence of the ISTJ that is appealing to them? To me, an ESFP has that playful-ness that I lack and that ability to not give a shit about other people's opinions like me.

    In my experience, FJs are too dependent on social standards and it makes me wretch. ESFPs, however, are outgoing and flirty without the social judgment. I just find Te to be extremely effective in running my life and Fe to be extremely useless.


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    I think my girlfriend is an ESFP, (or an ISFP. ) Either way, there is definitely a spark, I guess what I mean is, we "flow" together smoothly. In our body language and our conversations.
    Freedom Isn't Free. [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    I can't picture an ESFP and an ISTJ together. They seem like antimatter to each other. Can they only exist in a Bose–Einstein condensate *doesn't know what the hell he's talking about here* or something?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shimmy View Post
    I can't picture an ESFP and an ISTJ together. They seem like antimatter to each other. Can they only exist in a Bose�Einstein condensate *doesn't know what the hell he's talking about here* or something?
    Think opposites attract.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shimmy View Post
    I can't picture an ESFP and an ISTJ together.
    A perfect pairing, if both of them are mature and the man is man enough.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Litvyak View Post
    and the man is man enough.
    Explain?
    Your kisses, sweeter than honey. But guess what, so is my money.

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    I have an ISTJ, he's wonderful... however, I'm an ESTP
    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    Quote Originally Posted by gromit View Post
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    ESFP: learns how to assume responsibility, ISTJ: unafraid of using Te to dominate.

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