How comfortable are you with emotional expression (from yourself and others)?
I feel wierd! Like most Ts, emotional expression does not come easy. I'd rather show you how I feel over saying it..... Saying "I Love you" is so hard, and I must be really feeling some type of way for me to initiate that exchange.
I can't take too much emotional expression. If a person gets too emotional, I will withdraw from the situation. If I can't do it physically, believe me my mind has checked out. Sometimes it's smothering.
I have a buddy I really believe is an ISFJ...the guy is so sensitive, where I come from, a punch and a wisecrack is how I'd show I care. This guy doesn't mind embraces and things like that. And he's not gay! LOL. He's a good hearted guy.
What do you do in your spare time? What sort of hobbies do you have?
In my spare time, I like to play sports, workout, and read, and do a little TV watching. I'm an I but eventually I have to have some human contact, most preferably a few people as opposed to 100.
Do people have hobbies anymore? I guess working on my house is a hobby? Because I do that when I can. I guess I like to work with my hands and do/create things to my speicifications. I wish I had the time to do more of this. Sometimes I want things done now and I have to shell out the $$$ for this.
In your personal opinion or experience, what is the greatest difference between you and xSFJs?
I think SFJs are nicer in a sense...they laugh a lot. It seems like for them Fe is this desire to not offend anybody. They are very mannerly, and sometimes too nice.....almost to the point that they could be considered a doormat to some, and actually allow it to happen. Overall, It seems they care more than an xSTJ would, which is great, because I have learned alot from my ISFJ buddy, but it could cause them to be used.