Quote Originally Posted by Stephen View Post
I personally can forgive a great deal, as long as nobody is hurt. Jokes gone bad aren't a big deal to me, as long as the person recognizes it. Like, rape jokes that make light of the act or the victim aren't funny, and if I call someone on one and they won't even think about it, I'm likely to decide they're an asshole. I'm also hard to offend through teasing, I actually enjoy that. There's a lot of banter like that at my job. Mild deception would depend on the deceiver's intent. I don't think I'd want to be friends with someone who consistently lied to me about things that matter... some people exaggerate for effect and that can be fun. So in short, I think I'm pretty forgiving, but I can imagine situations where people could say or do things that they might think aren't a big deal, yet these would make me write them out of my life completely.

Other ISTJs' mileage will vary.
Thank you for shedding insight on this for me.