But it's hard for me to say, "It's all right, I understand what you are saying. But I think differently. Can YOU understand that too?" when he's just stated that all people who believe such and such should be rounded up and shipped off, or that personality types who are chronically late don't have any redeeming points. He seems to be more open to changing his mind on issues that don't involve people, but when it involves people, his justice tendency overrides any mercy or understanding. he can be friendly with them, but when it comes up in conversation between us, his true feelings come out and I'm ashamed to even know him.