Second, Direct your Ne to this: Not sure if you are a male or female, but boot knocking trends isn't something you can determine based on type. There's ultra conservatives of all types, just like there are freeks of all types.
ISTJs view of conservative is relative as well. We don't all follow some pre-programmed value system. Rules observation are based on experience (Si) and even personal feelings (Fi). So the only way you're going to know how far you're going to get is to find out. How you do that's up to you.
I'm sure that special creative ability you INTPs have will get you there.
Are you a male or female? You sound like a guy, but I could be wrong.