[MBTI General] ISTJs who don't lust after the ENFP!

[Edgar]

Yeah man, that's what this thread is about. There's some kind of craze with the ENFPs.

ENFPs are very bubbly and friendly, which often translates into "that girl puts out".

Guys like that.

 

[IZthe411]

ENFPs are very bubbly and friendly, which often translates into "that girl puts out".

Guys like that.

Yeah that's a point, but you gotta keep up with the randomness.
Us poor sensors may not be able to keep focused on the end point, and throw our hands up.

 

[stardancer]

I have the opposite problem.... being an enfp completely lusting after an istj

 

[Lady_X]

this thread is hilarious!

you go istjs! just say no!

 

[d@v3]

I don't mind that really man LOL...As long as I get time to recharge before the next adventure!

I don't mind a little push, that's what I need!

+1

ENFPs are very bubbly and friendly, which often translates into "that girl puts out".

Guys like that.

LOL!

I have the opposite problem.... being an enfp completely lusting after an istj

What?! Usually ENFP gals run for their lives once they figure me out!

this thread is hilarious!

you go istjs! just say no!

So Lady, whatcha doin this weekend....

 

[Laurie]

ENFPs are fun, until you notice why they test as ENFP, and not ISTJ :|

They have totally different definitions for like everything.

This.

 

[Charmed Justice]

Habba speaks the truth.

 

[Litvyak]

Not sure what it is with the I_TJ and E_FP opposite pairing... any relationship between those seems like it would take a lot of work from both ends.

I've tried it once, and I would do so again. Many hardships, huge differences, yet it's the best payoff ever. It's just a matter of paying the price - plus, they have no idea how hard they are to get.

We both had our "ok, that's enough, see you in [insert time]"-moments.

 

[Edgar]

Yeah that's a point, but you gotta keep up with the randomness.
Us poor sensors may not be able to keep focused on the end point, and throw our hands up.

Yeah, you have to mind the S/N gap... if it's too wide it turns into "wtf are you talking about, and why should care?"

Like I have this ISFP friend and we get along great one on one. But then when I invite my N friends over, after an hour she says she wants to go home. I'm like "what's the matter?" She says "I don't know what you guys are talking about, I feel like an idiot".

And in my case, if I'm surrounded by too much Sensor talk, I think " I really don't care what kind of oil you use in your vintage Mustang, and I can't really get excited about the fact that so and so made it to the 'playoffs', or whatever the fuck those things are called"... so I go back to browsing the internet.

 

[Giggly]

this thread is hilarious!

you go istjs! just say no!

lol you know they can't.

 

[Parsimony]

Give me a INxx and we're good.

 

[angelhair45]

I don't think any ISTJ's in my life even like me that much. Most of them seem to really dislike me or even hate me. My younger brother is the only ISTJ that I get along with well, but he's a more relaxed ISTJ. So some ISTJs like us?

 

[runvardh]

Give me a INxx and we're good.

Are you sure about that?

 

[Donna Cecilia]

Are you serious?

As long as the guy is attractive, and finds me attractive too; I´ll lust after him. Type doesn´t matter.

For a long-term thing, ENFPs are great, ESTPs being a close second.

 

[Parsimony]

Are you sure about that?

By far, the guys I have dated are INxx.

 

[IZthe411]

I don't think any ISTJ's in my life even like me that much. Most of them seem to really dislike me or even hate me. My younger brother is the only ISTJ that I get along with well, but he's a more relaxed ISTJ. So some ISTJs like us?

Are you sure you're not taking their lack of immediate, giddy responsiveness the wrong way?

 

[angelhair45]

I don't expect anyone to have an immediate giddy response to myself. The people who adore me don't generally respond in that way. That is more like my response to people I like.

Two of them I've known for over 10 years and two I've known for most of my life. At this point I'm not unsure about how any of them feel about me except for one. As I said, my younger brother and I get along well, we love each other, but are very different.

Two of them are pretty blatant about their feelings, so unless they are lying then yes I'm sure they don't like me. The other one, I think he can't decide how he feels about me. He likes me, but then I do or say some crazy thing and he's not so sure about me any more. He's very much a believer in one way being the right way, and that is generally his way. Actually all 4 ISTJ's I know are that way, but my brother is a little more open which is why we get along well, I guess.

 

[Aleksei]

I thought ISTJs weren't into ENFPs to begin with, the Keirsey match for ISTJs is ESFP... wouldn't ENFPs be a bit weird and spacey for you guys?

 

[IZthe411]

I don't expect anyone to have an immediate giddy response to myself. The people who adore me don't generally respond in that way. That is more like my response to people I like.

Two of them I've known for over 10 years and two I've known for most of my life. At this point I'm not unsure about how any of them feel about me except for one. As I said, my younger brother and I get along well, we love each other, but are very different.

Two of them are pretty blatant about their feelings, so unless they are lying then yes I'm sure they don't like me. The other one, I think he can't decide how he feels about me. He likes me, but then I do or say some crazy thing and he's not so sure about me any more. He's very much a believer in one way being the right way, and that is generally his way. Actually all 4 ISTJ's I know are that way, but my brother is a little more open which is why we get along well, I guess.

Yeah the dynamic's much different when you are dealing with family. A lot of time that bond will be stronger than personality differences. Not always, but a lot of times.

I will agree with you that extreme ISTJs are very much into their 'way', and you either go with the program or not. I think I'm pretty open minded, and I know a few other ISTJs who are the same way. So we're out there, we just haven't crossed paths yet. :hi:

 

[IZthe411]

I thought ISTJs weren't into ENFPs to begin with, the Keirsey match for ISTJs is ESFP... wouldn't ENFPs be a bit weird and spacey for you guys?

Opposites attract for most.