Seriously though .. I think the controlling aspect of my personality has calmed down as i matured emotionally/mentally etc. I would like to think that as you grow your J/P balances out so you become less rigid and stop sweating the little things.
SJ's .. Come on people, leave the house a mess, throw away your diary, turn up late when meeting your friends, leave your mobile at home so noone can get in touch with you .. And lets enjoy life .. Drinks are on me