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[ISFJ] dating an ISFJ

jcloudz

Yup
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so my question is what helps you at the end of your day? full body massage and dinner? what do you really like?
 

JTG1984

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A bottle of wine, a hot shower, a burning fire, peace and quiet, snuggles with the SO.
 

tinker683

Whackus Bonkus
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sp/sx
A bottle of wine, a hot shower, a burning fire, peace and quiet, snuggles with the SO.

This actually sounds really really nice...

In other words, I like to cool down at the end of the day be it watching movies, reading a book, what ever. Spending time with the SO is preferable in all scenarios though.
 

Amargith

Hotel California
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My mom's an ISFJ. I think if someone took away her cooking responsibilities and the subsequent dishes...basically help them finish their workload faster so they can sit down without worrying about not having done stuff, that would be awesome.
 

Grungemouse

Widdles in your cream.
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Get them a token that symbolizes a fond memory or inside joke between the two of you. Or maybe something that they pointed out in the shops, and said they liked it. My ex of an ISFJ appreciated it when I paid attention, especially when she knows I'm not the most observant person.
 

SubjectA

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My fiance usually likes a hot cup of hot chocolate or tea, and likes to have me give him a massage or scratch his back for him. Basically, a lot of nice things that appeal to the senses.
 

d@v3

Perfect Gentleman! =D
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Mmmm massages from an ISFJ female... nothing could be better! :happy:
 

Saslou

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Mmmm massages from an ISFJ female... nothing could be better! :happy:

Baby .. You need a massage from an ESfj .. I could rock your world, or just ease those muscular aches, lol :blush:

I want a massage now :(

EDIT - I also do snuggles ;)
 

d@v3

Perfect Gentleman! =D
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:ohmy:

Well... if you want to give me a massage I'm all for it... I don't know about snuggles though... after all, I *AM* a manly ISTJ! :D:D
 

Saslou

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:ohmy:

Well... if you want to give me a massage I'm all for it... I don't know about snuggles though... after all, I *AM* a manly ISTJ! :D:D

Ohhh .. I must of misread your rep comment .. Meh, no i didn't .. Retract your statement please :devil:

:newwink:
 

JTG1984

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pssh I will take a massage and I will snuggle with you.
 

ayoitsStepho

Twerking & Lurking
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so/sx
My moms an ISFJ and she flips in happiness when the house is cleaned and tidy.
It makes her feel appreciated. :)
 
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