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    Default dating an ISFJ

    so my question is what helps you at the end of your day? full body massage and dinner? what do you really like?

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    A bottle of wine, a hot shower, a burning fire, peace and quiet, snuggles with the SO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JTG1984 View Post
    A bottle of wine, a hot shower, a burning fire, peace and quiet, snuggles with the SO.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JTG1984 View Post
    A bottle of wine, a hot shower, a burning fire, peace and quiet, snuggles with the SO.
    This actually sounds really really nice...

    In other words, I like to cool down at the end of the day be it watching movies, reading a book, what ever. Spending time with the SO is preferable in all scenarios though.
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    My mom's an ISFJ. I think if someone took away her cooking responsibilities and the subsequent dishes...basically help them finish their workload faster so they can sit down without worrying about not having done stuff, that would be awesome.
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    Get them a token that symbolizes a fond memory or inside joke between the two of you. Or maybe something that they pointed out in the shops, and said they liked it. My ex of an ISFJ appreciated it when I paid attention, especially when she knows I'm not the most observant person.
    Um, yeah.

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    thank you for advice or tips

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    My fiance usually likes a hot cup of hot chocolate or tea, and likes to have me give him a massage or scratch his back for him. Basically, a lot of nice things that appeal to the senses.
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    Sounds like my ESFJ husband!! Loves those massages. lol
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    Mmmm massages from an ISFJ female... nothing could be better!
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