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    Senior Member Saslou's Avatar
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    Default Does anyone know a 'healthy' ESFJ?

    So looking at the SP threads .. And curiosity taking over, i dared to type into google ESFJ forums .. Ouch, lol.

    So evidently there is a lot of hate going on .. Each to their own .. One thing was clear though and i have observed it on this site also ..

    Where are the healthy ESFJ's of the world?

    Par me of course Lol

    Granted i get that people would rather talk of negatives as opposed to positives .. But you can't tell me every ESFJ is EVILLLLLLLL .. Lol

    Come on people help me out here .. Got to spread some positive love ..
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    Besides you(I think that you might be healthy ), I actually happen to know one.
    Same age as me, horrendously attractive and a really nice person.
    She's a workaholic, but that's about the only negative thing about her, really.
    And that's also kind of admirable, in a strange way. So.

    Oh, I almost forgot. My best friend's mother is an ESFJ, and besides rheumatism, she's healthy, and she's got a glowing and nice personality Which is common for ESFJs, I have noticed. And not that fickle kind of "nice person", either.

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    I only know 2, one healthy and one VERY unhealthy.

    The healthy one is quite pleasant to be around, she is very sweet but she doesnt take shit. I enjoy spending time around her. The unhealthy one is extremely emotionally manipulative. And VERY needy.

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    My mother. I don't think I need to explain the ESFJ-INTJ mother and child relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Litvyak View Post
    My mother. I don't think I need to explain the ESFJ-INTJ mother and child relationship.
    I don't want to make assumptions because i don't know the dynamics of that kind of relationship .. Can i take a wild guess and say not very pleasant ..
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    my mom is an ESFJ. If she didn't have all of her physical (and underlying mental) problems she'd be a 'healthy' ESFJ, and when she was she was a great person. She still is, but she is always in pain and doesn't leave the house much other than to run errands. She really doesn't have any friends outside of immediate family now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    I don't want to make assumptions because i don't know the dynamics of that kind of relationship .. Can i take a wild guess and say not very pleasant ..
    ENFJ daughter and touchy judgmental INTJ father, how 'bout that one?
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    My mother is a healthy ESFJ.
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    My former flatmate. She talked too much (that was one thing that I found difficult about her) but she is also one of the most caring, no-strings-attached generous, altruistic person I know, if I ever was in real trouble she would be the first person on whose door I would knock. She is a doctor and I think she is perfect in this profession, very caring, sacrifical, organised and can keep it together even under pressure (which sometimes led to me seeing her just unloading all her emotions as soon as she came home, which was okay with me).

    Also my best friend, she is just great in making people feel comfortable, a natural relationshipbuilder and -upkeeper, also very emotionally aware of people around her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    I don't want to make assumptions because i don't know the dynamics of that kind of relationship .. Can i take a wild guess and say not very pleasant ..
    Well, we rarely come to an understanding. I still love her, it's just painful to see how we live in different worlds.

    I really want to compromise despite being a stubborn J myself, but she takes the cake in playing the martyr if her conceptions are falisfied.

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