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    OK.

    So my functions are Fe-Fi-Fo-Thumb

    But now my cage is starting to get a little rattled. I have seen on 2 threads that talk about Fe being about the community. The sex one made me laugh, what a pile of crap.

    Now granted, i am a very caring individual and in the past i have done voluntary work (that's community) but only because i knew it would look good on my CV thus improving my chances of getting a job.

    Now sounding incredibly selfish here .. I don't care about the community. I care about getting myself back on my feet and living my life to its full potential.

    So what am i missing here?
    Am i only partially Fe.

    Or can i be something else.
    On my face test I am INFJ
    God help me.
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    I know what you are.

    Ba-da-ss.

    Tada!

    BDxS.

    [add]: my selfishness takes more of a thinking turn rather than a feeling turn.
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    You come in here and corrupt my thread .. You are now banished to the cleaning closet .. I don't have one so just go to your own closet

    Seriously darling .. Where the hell has my Fe gone or am i just not a community Fe?
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    I just came out of the closet to type this

    Sorry, you know I can't make my first post a serious one

    Well, I am not sure. How can you test as ESFJ and INFJ? I am trying to think on this one. Maybe you aren't a community Fe, but would that just mean you are a selfish Fe-er?

    I know a rather selfish person, but she is an ENFP, but uses Fe heavily.

    I dunno, what do you think? Give me more thoughts.
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    I took the stupid face test and got INFJ
    I know i am not that .. I am definately E .. Lol

    I have never been a selfish person and put my needs first although i suppose i could give a few examples so that isn't entirely true. I am a somewhat selfish person then. *sigh* Lol

    But this whole community thing .. wtf???

    No.

    Could it possibly be me balancing out my F/T. I am better able to rationalise my feelings now than at any time in the past. I am aware my feelings are still there but i don't act on them nearly as much as i did in the past. Or maybe i am talking shit .. Oh i don't bloody know.
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    I don't think Fe is about "caring for the community". Isn't it more of orientating your value system with the rest of the community's?

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    Sas, you are DEFINITELY Fe. I can tell by the way your "behavior".
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    Dave .. You are a darling.

    So i can be Fe without caring about the community or its values .. Woo Hooo
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    Of course, it's unusual I think, but if all Fe's were the same, it would be pretty boring.
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    I took the stupid face test and got INFJ
    I know i am not that .. I am definately E .. Lol

    I have never been a selfish person and put my needs first although i suppose i could give a few examples so that isn't entirely true. I am a somewhat selfish person then. *sigh* Lol

    But this whole community thing .. wtf???

    No.

    Could it possibly be me balancing out my F/T. I am better able to rationalise my feelings now than at any time in the past. I am aware my feelings are still there but i don't act on them nearly as much as i did in the past. Or maybe i am talking shit .. Oh i don't bloody know.
    Fe is supposed to be my second function, but I tend to score low in it because I'm not much of a hostess or community oriented. I think of it as being able to have a more relativistic understanding of values and perspectives of people. Rather than having an internal idea that X is wrong in both principle and application, I have a sense of principles being fluid and taking on different meanings in different concrete applications.

    I'm not surprised you have had conflicting test results. Your personality and interests have always seemed a little outside the "box". If a particular MBTI category feels limiting or just significantly off in its application to you, then it probably isn't the right one. I will confess that I leave at least one X beside one letter of my type because I like having two pigeonholes rather than one. You could be borderline on even a couple of letters. As far as S/N is concerned you show interest in talking about abstract things more than is typical online. You could easily be either imo.
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