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    Quote Originally Posted by raz View Post
    How long should I wait to call?
    I think you're over due. It's been 4 days? Call her this evening!
    Freedom Isn't Free. [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    I agree, go ahead and call her today/tonight.

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    I followed my ESFP brother's advice and texted her with "Haven't talked to ya in a few days, hope everything's alright, miss talking to ya." We'll see how the ESFP's advice does.


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    Quote Originally Posted by raz View Post
    I followed my ESFP brother's advice and texted her with "Haven't talked to ya in a few days, hope everything's alright, miss talking to ya." We'll see how the ESFP's advice does.
    That's definitely an ESFP talking! LOL

    I don't think an ISTJ (especially a dude) has it in them to write something like that.

    It's not bad; actually it's pretty good. It should work!

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    I made up that text, he told me to text her. :P He's always telling me to do stuff like that. It's what I don't get about him though. He gets all the girls, but I never see him in a long term relationship.


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    Quote Originally Posted by raz View Post
    I made up that text, he told me to text her. :P He's always telling me to do stuff like that. It's what I don't get about him though. He gets all the girls, but I never see him in a long term relationship.
    ESFP- He's got that magic letter combination right there.....Knows what and what not to say, probably laid back, go with the flow. It comes natural to him.

    My brother is like that- I'd consider him an ESTP off the top...He had game but could never settle down. I envied his ease with females.

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelsinging View Post
    Yes, I think you are right. Maybe i am thinking to much. As long as she is happy everything will be fine.
    Yes.

    @ raz... The text was good.

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    Woah, she just texted me with, ""Hey sunshine! Life is good! stayin busy like always..hope ur doing well 2!" So, I called her a few minutes later saying hey, want to touch base with you, give me a call when you get back. She called 20 minutes later. She was getting ready to find a coffee shop to study, and we talked about our day and school, and I asked her if she wanted company to the coffee shop. She said she wasn't sure because she had to read a lot and would feel obligated to talk to me. So, I asked her a bit later if she wanted to catch a movie later this week and she said she'd have to check her planner and asked me what my schedule was like this week. She said she has a strict set schedule she made for herself for schoolwork and a test in a few weeks she's making herself study for. So, she said she'd talk to me later and we hung up.

    I'm seriously in wtf mode right now.


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    It's probably an ENFP with an INTJ. Check the percentage of the S and if it is low maybe it is N. It is a general rule that you can get along with the opposite of your dominant function. ENFP's natural partner is the INTJ, or the INFJ. ENFP's dominant function of Extraverted Intuition is best matched with a partner whose dominant function is Introverted Intuition. ENFP Relationships

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    Quote Originally Posted by raz View Post
    I noticed I was quiet a bit throughout the night. I really suck at maintaining conversations.
    Whoa. Listening is a wonderful skill and being quiet is not a bad thing.
    You don't really suck at maintaining conversations - you are a good listener
    and don't feel the need to destroy every moment of silence with talk.
    Stop kicking yourself.

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