I went on a date with a girl last night that seems pretty ENFP. I finally asked her out a week ago. I've known her for about 10 months. We had talked on the phone twice for an hour at a time before we went to the fair last night. It went pretty well, went from holding hands at the beginning to a couple spontaneous kisses throughout the night and a goodnight kiss. It was really fun going out on a date, but I feel kind of stopped on the mutual interests thing. Whenever I try to invoke Ne and talk in analogies, she's able to quickly catch on and she's able to carry conversations on her own. She's pretty go with the flow.
I noticed I was quiet a bit throughout the night. I really suck at maintaining conversations. I'm just kind of stuck myself on where to go from here. This whole dating thing is new to me, and we haven't setup a second date yet. I called her tonight and we talked for 15 minutes but didn't set anything up. I guess right now I just need to work on what's appealing about her to me to figure out if this is really worth going into. It's just a lot to suddenly take in. It was my first date ever, at 23, too. I just feel really thrown off right now.
I'm trying to figure out how I want to handle moving forward right now, especially a second date. I'm just not sure how to go about it yet. Grr, I feel jumbled up emotionally, like a wrench has been thrown into my life. Heh.