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    I don't have any advice right now, but I just wanted to say...

    GOOD LUCK D@V3! Be sure to tell us how it goes, and definitely use the word "date" if you're comfortable with that (or if you want a definite answer as to whether she likes you or not)

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    I guess I just don't want to make a mistake. ... The thing is, I don't even care that much about it, I just make myself seem like I do. If that makes any sense.
    This makes perfect sense to me. Don't worry, you're not alone. I think us (ISTJs) just tend to second-guess ourselves a lot and overthink everything when it comes to romantic interests and trying to figure out how they "feel" about us. It'd be so much easier if people were just direct and blunt with us.

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    Thanks Autumn.

    So, I just came across this post. Do you think it is relevant to this situation? (It's the same girl) It appears to be from February.
    http://www.typologycentral.com/forum...8-post250.html
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    Relevant in what kind of way?

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    Well, do you think points number 3 and 4 are relevant? Do you think she meant it when she said "of course!" and "nicest guy shes ever met"

    I mean, we really do seem to enjoy each others company. I don't think she is faking it...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    Yeah, you do stress too much. Chill out, man.
    Hahaha, I just told him that in his blog before I looked at this.

    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    I guess I just don't want to make a mistake. ... The thing is, I don't even care that much about it, I just make myself seem like I do. If that makes any sense.

    So, does your response mean it doesn't matter what I do next or how I respond to her?
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    Yeah, I already did.
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    Yeah, I already did.
    You asked her out? She said yes?

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    What? No. I meant I texted her back already. ...And you never answered my question from post #64! =(
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    Oh

    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    Well, do you think points number 3 and 4 are relevant? Do you think she meant it when she said "of course!" and "nicest guy shes ever met"

    I mean, we really do seem to enjoy each others company. I don't think she is faking it...
    ...Well, personally, I think "you're the nicest guy ever!" and "of course, I would go out with you otherwise (read: in an alternate universe)!" can sometimes be kind of stock answers to letting someone down easily after they ask you out =(

    BUT some people do mean them genuinely. And you know her better than we do, so if you think that she was genuine about it then she probably was. And if she didn't mean it then, it's still been 5 months from that point and you two have gotten to hang out more...maybe she has (stronger) feelings for you now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AutumnReverie View Post
    Oh


    ...Well, personally, I think "you're the nicest guy ever!" and "of course, I would go out with you otherwise (read: in an alternate universe)!" can sometimes be kind of stock answers to letting someone down easily after they ask you out =(
    So... you think she lied?

    Quote Originally Posted by AutumnReverie View Post
    BUT some people do mean them genuinely. And you know her better than we do, so if you think that she was genuine about it then she probably was. And if she didn't mean it then, it's still been 5 months from that point and you two have gotten to hang out more...maybe she has (stronger) feelings for you now.
    I suppose.
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